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Recent content by shan01

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    Is it right to use birth control when married?

    Thank you everyone for the advice. I appreciate it all, and the different views. I plan on sitting down with him tonight and having a deep and meaningful discussion
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    Is it right to use birth control when married?

    Incase you've seen my other thread 'my partner doesnt ever want to marry' it turns out he may do one day, but that he sees marriage as you get married and then start having babies straight away. He has a 7 year old daughter from before he became christian, and really doesnt want more children in...
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    Advice please!

    Wow, im in the fast forwarded type version of your situation in a way, but in many ways is different. We met just over a year ago, both very new at the christian thing and not that committed, fell in love, moved in after 6 weeks, had sex (i know i know), anyway now were having big regrets, and...
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    Trouble getting on with partners daughter

    Hi, ive been living with my partner for just on a year now and im having a really hard time getting along with his 7 year old daughter. Sometimes were fine and get along great and other times were drive each other mental so to speak, like she'll do things just to spite me, or asks her dad if she...
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    Endometriosis

    Hi, i have endometriosis and am going in for a laparoscopy on the 22nd of june, also a dye test to see if im able to have babies or not. Im in chronic pain most days, and on codeine most the time for it
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    Hey everyone!

    Im new to the forums! Im 20 and live in new Zealand with my boyfriend and his daughter. We've recently decided to start committing ourselves more to God by stoping having sex, and so I'm looking to make christian friends to help us through this.