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Recent content by ShadeSpeCtre

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    Girlfriend is confused

    Hmmm. I can understand you pain in not wanting to lose what seems to be a (mostly) healthy relationship. I understand your young but don't let it get the better of you. Truth is that God speaks to all of us the same regardless(well if we listen). He has a plan for your life and hers. Who...
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    Serious relations?

    Whew......Well, in all honesty I might not have gotten all of that straight, but I get the basic idea. I have to agree if you are unable to keep up an attitude of kindness even if she is treating you terribly, you might have to break it off. Doesn't need to be forever, but until you can work...
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    whats your story?

    Well I we both went to the same college, and had seen each other around. At the time I was representing the Anime and Video Gaming club. She was taking art classes and liked anime. So I would run into her quite often. She is much more outgoing than me and has always been able to fit into a...
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    In need of some supportive words.

    Unfortunately I'm at a little of a loss and need the support of fellow Christians through prayer and advice. I have been dating a wonderful woman for the last two years, but it has been a bumpy road at times. She was molested at the age of 8, and over the course of our relationship she has...