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Recent content by SFBUK

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    Happy Valentine's Day -- for singles

    It's 1.30 pm over here in the UK - almost half way through the working day!!! SFB
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    Happy Valentine's Day -- for singles

    Thank you so much. I've been dreading Valentine's day - at work they are having a special day where everyone is bringing in pictures of their partners and doing a 'guess the other half' competition. That sort of thing usually makes me feel awful. Maybe I should take in a picture of Jesus!
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    Singles fellowships

    There isn't one at our church either. I've mentioned it to a few people, inlcuding the minister. I wonder, how do you go about starting a singles group? I think it would just be nice to go to something that isn't just couples and families SFB
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    Name Three Things thread

    1) My Tiny Tears Doll 2) Batman Car 3) Replica Starship Enterprise I have also just bought a toy supposedly for my cat, but I love it too! Which 3 countries/continents would you most like to visit?
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    Honesty & Personal Ads

    I understand how you feel, it's soul destroying when you don't get a reply back from someone on a dating site. In particular if it's someone you have corresponded with before. :( I too am honest, in particular about my size, and it does seem to put some men off. Personally the issue about...
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    If God has called me to be single...

    I have posted ont the mature singles with a similar problem... :confused:
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    Struggling with healing

    When I first joined this Website I was going through a major episode of depression (I've suffered on and off for several years). I truly believe that I have been healed through prayers of many people, include some of you here. Thanks to everyone who has prayed for me, and of course thanks to...
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    Having Help from Medication

    I hope all is going well for you now. I would agree though that you should not worry if you do have to take medication for depression. It is an illness. I take medication for depression in the same way that I take medication for diabetes. I will pray that God will help you sort out what is...
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    worthless

    Even though you probably don't feel like it, you are priceless. God made you for a unique purpose, and loves you very much, just the way you are - even though you feel so bad. He is your friend, and you don't have to do anything for him to accept you, even if you feel that others don't. Just...
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    Lets Hug each other in Jesus name ..comfort

    :groupray: God is with you all, even when you feel like cr*p, that's a fact! SFB
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    Immigration

    As the child of 'immigrants' from the caribbean in 1960's I sometimes despair at the lack of change in some people's attitudes since those days. :sigh: SFB
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    How do you guys feel about a potential mate older,with kids,or both?

    I would happily choose someone who already has children as a partner, as I am unable to have children naturally myself. I would feel happier knowing he had already had children as I would not feel I was denying him that part of life. I am sure I wouldn't be a 'wicked stepmother' either, but...
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    What's your take on "soulmates"?

    I understand this point, about having a soulmate who you are not necessarily going to marry. My cousin is my soulmate, but alas we will not marry. :sigh: SFB
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    How does God let you know he/she is the one?

    That sounds like the beginnings of a marvelous relationship, and is an inspiration to me. I think I'm just about getting to that place, and God knows this - that's why up until now I have remained single (not necessarily happily). Although in the past I may have believed I've found the...