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Recent content by seaflower

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    Don't want does NOT mean can't have

    Does anyone else have the problem that when people ask you when you're having kids, and you say you don't want any, they immediately respond with "oh, there are treatments for that!" Or "pray and God will help you get pregnant!" I always have to reply back with "I said DON'T, not CAN'T. We do...
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    A post from the "other side"

    He's the Christian, I am the "non-believer." Our marriage has worked because I respect and support his beliefs and he does the same for me. I go to church with him, he asks about the current New Age book I'm reading and what it talks about. I am here because I am wondering about Christianity and...
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    Possible new Christian - very confused

    I've recently forayed into trying to figure out what I believe, or if I believe anything. I kind of feel like I'm in a canoe with no paddle in the middle of the ocean. Do I wait for a "sign"? I've been chatting with God, and it's beginning to feel a little one sided with me doing all the talking...
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    That "manly" handshake

    I love having men try to "outshake" me. I've been in the business world for 9 years now and I can squeeze their hand back enough to cause marks.
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    The Accomplishment Thread

    Found someone to petsit our evil cat-children when we go down to Texas next week :clap:
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    Very thorough Aspie quiz.

    I took this awhile back and I got a score very nearly 170.
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    Another newbie

    I'll just get the basics out of the way: 28, female, married to a member of the armed forces, no kids but two adorably evil cat-children. I am currently in a "spiritual search" so I'm not sure what I am right now. I believe there is something, just not quite sure what yet. The hubs is a former...
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    Another newbie