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Recent content by Sayma

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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    I have decided to cut right back on going out, because I love my girlfriend so much and I want to help her through this trust issue that I've created with her and stay with her for the rest of my life. Like a previous comment said, either choose your girl or going out and get rid of the other...
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    downloading music/movies from the internet

    There are artists out there like Trent Reznor (lead singer in Nine Inch Nails) who will host his music on his website for free - which ofcourse is not stealing if you were to download it from here. But this is just his barebones music - I don't think it would sit in the same basket as going onto...
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    downloading music/movies from the internet

    That simple? Any other takes on this?
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    You tell a child not to touch the stove so that if you do put them next to it then they won't touch it. You don't tell the child 'don't go near the stove' and then put them next to it, no. And you're still in the mentality that I go out to do what every other SINGLE guy goes out for - the girls...
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    I know that it's not good, you've just stated the obvious and gone a little off topic, I know obviously it didn't go down well with her and this is why we are trying to work on it. I have never done anything and never will do anything physical with a girl. This was 1 hiccup that I will never go...
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    Il agree with what you're saying with the way you used to go out, unfortunately that's the way that it is with girls when they go out, and I trust my girlfriend to go out and be with the people she is with, not dance with some guy so he can 'rub his junk against her', accept drinks off guys...
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    Very strong thoughts. But sounds like you have some trust issues yourself so much so that just going to the nightclub would be enough. Let me remind you that I didn't say that I cheated on her in a nightclub, I go out to be with my friends. I don't go out dancing and flirting with girls-but if...
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    She doesn't trust me 100% because of what happened 3 months ago. Not that we have had a perfect relationship and out of nowhere she just doesn't and hasn't ever trusted me. So I think you're wrong and we will work through this, but I just don't know what the right thing to do right now is
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    I've been with her for 5 years and like I've said we were great together and even now we are pretty good! There's just this trust issue that needs to be resolved. The sense in spending time arguing with her for (possibly but unlikely) years is that I really think she is the girl for me. I think...
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    I have been with her for 5 years-on it's own this is no reason to still just stay with someone, but we are really good together. I would like her to come with me, she is very welcome to come, but she doesn't find it interesting like I do. The thing about it as well is the girl I text lives in...
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    I don't know whether maybe I should maybe take your current mood as 'angry' to have something to do with this post? lol Can you justify what you're saying so I have a little more to go on? Thanks
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    I said that we have trust issues based on what I did. I was and still am very sorry for what I did and we have had hours of conversation over it and that it would never happen again. Where do you draw the line between your partner wanting you to do something and you seeing that it is right for...
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    downloading music/movies from the internet

    If possible, as easy as it may be - can you quote from the bible in your replies. Thank you
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    downloading music/movies from the internet

    I know that this is obviously illegal. I have had discussions with my girlfriend a number of times about this and she says that it is not stealing. I just wondered what it would be from a religious point of view. If someone was to download some music/movies for you and put them on your iphone...
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    Am I being unreasonable here?

    Ok, again thank you for your input :)