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Recent content by satguy2000

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    Breaking Point?

    Thank you all for sharing your experiences. to some extend, I find it so humbling that you all are willing to share such with us here and also that where to draw the line depends on the person and the situation. Also, I am young so many of my peers are neither married or close to such a...
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    Breaking Point?

    I have been reading over a lot posts from people that have been seperated, and I hope yall dont mind me asking, but what was the point of no return. I am struggling with a marriage that may be headed that direction(though I will do everything in my power to avoid that) I guess I would like to...
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    I think he hurts me intentionally...

    1. I think you gave youself some of the best advice "Think I had maybe better avoid him in the flesh for a few weeks, for my own sanity, and that of my little one. " 2. Dont let yourself get too wrapped up in what he may be doing. Trust that the love that you have shown your kid (which I can...
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    Separated and vacation

    I think the two first posts were right on in terms of getting the expectations out there as you do not wish to be taken advantage of and this would be my first worry for you. It sounds like you have some nice people here looking out for you in that regards One proposal (but this could be...
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    What DH is saying now????

    I am so sorry to hear that. This may be one of the hardest things for us to understand is the actions of others. Remember, you can not fix the situation alone especially when the other quites and do not play the blame game which will do more harm than good. I will pray for you, but take the...
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    Marriage Over?

    Before you consider it quits: 1. Seek counseling...it may hel you guys more than you know. 2. Date Night: seems like a simple concept, but it could add a lot back into your marriage.
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    Would you hit your wife even if she slapped you first?

    1. Your safety and your kids. Go to a friend or family for a short time and see if the tension doesnt subside. 2. It is not ok to either of you guys to do that especially for him to hit you. That is one thing that I have sworn to myself that I will not do. SOunds like you guys really...
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    Marriage heading towards divorce

    Stand Strong my fellow christian. Life has some very high bumps in the road, but there are always great things in the future. Just remember there are a lot of things out of our hands (which is hard for us guys to admit).
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    DH wants out

    I pray things work out for your guys, but whatever happens, see if you guys can get into some marriage counseling ASAP. If you feel that some of these things are your faults, also seek some conseling for your help as you do not want to feel that way for the rest of your life. Even if it can...
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    Are all men like this?

    All those type of things depend on the couples and the relationship. Just a view from accross the aisle, just make sure that he still knows you desire him even if you are not interested in the time by telling him. That will go a long way to remove some hurt or frustration. Hope that bit...
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    Illness and failing marriage

    I wanted to respond to especially one point that you made though all that you had to say was very inisightful. Something very hard that I have had to learn (and maybe this is harder as a man), but that it is ok to ask for help and not have the answers. But....most importantly, to remember...
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    Illness and failing marriage

    Wow.....that sounds exactly like her situation. To some extent it breaks my heart that no matter how much I can love her, I can not take her pain away. I have very much be humbled by mans limitations, but I guess that is a good lesson to learn. As for her pain meds, she requires them just...
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    any good couples groups(not web based) in DFW?

    My wife and I live up in the Frisco Area which is about 20-30 mins away depending on taffic. Her health hasnt been too great, but if she is doing better in a short time from now, we are always interested in meeting fellow christians. I should note that I am a transplant here, but love it and...
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    North Dallas/Richardson/Plano area ?

    If you are willing to come up to Frisco, Celebration Covenant Church is a really great place and where I call home. I am not allowed to post a link yet, but PM me if you want a link to the church. However, all the churches that have been mentioned are great places to be. You just need to...
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    Texas Roll Call

    What is the saying.....I was not born in Texas, but I got here as soon as my feet would carry me :) God Blessed Texas