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Recent content by SamKenney

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    Is anyone else struggling with this? Please help... (Moved from Teens)

    Yes, I know that I put too much pressure on myself. I always have. Probably always will. I take everyone elses failures personally. I punish myself when someone I know messes up. I've always made myself think that it's my responsibility to make sure everyone else is ok. It kills me when someone...
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    Is anyone else struggling with this? Please help... (Moved from Teens)

    Thank you all for your advice and prayers. They are very appreciated, and needed. I AM a Christian. I was saved when I was 5 years old. I honestly don't think I would care if I cut if I wasn't. I know that I am dissappointing Him, and that kills me. Then again, sometimes I cut because of a sin...
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    Is anyone else struggling with this? Please help... (Moved from Teens)

    I've never really been able to put into words why I cut. I guess it's the only pain that I like to feel. For years, it has been my escape. I went 21 days without cutting, but that was all ruined yesterday. I felt hurt, betrayed, forgotten. I have told 3 very close friends and they try to hold me...
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    Is anyone else struggling with this? Please help... (Moved from Teens)

    I have struggled with cutting/self injury since I was 12. I am now 18. I know that it is a sin and I need to stop, but I don't know how. I have prayed and asked for advice from friends, but i've never been able to put down the blade for longer than 7 months...that's my record so far. Does anyone...