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Recent content by Salted_with_fire

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    Pregnancy timing advice

    Fran - I can assure you that my opinions about God being in control are not based on some exceedingly deep understanding of why God allows what He allows - in your case, apparent infertility. I sincerely sympathize with you and your husband and hope that God allows you the opportunity to be a...
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    Wife doesn't like sex [moved from married couples]

    Nao, have you asked her if you are fulfilling her emotionally? Hormonal issues aside, speaking a spouses 'Love Language - viz. 5 Love Languages book' could rekindle physical desire.
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    Thoughts regarding [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]/cunninglus

    I do not know where to move it too and have to say, I am a bit offended that you think I posted this to be 'titillated'. I am trying to cast my bread upon many waters as I want to honor God, and my wife, to the best of my ability in my future marriage.
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    Pregnancy timing advice

    This is a very tricky issue which I ponder frequently as I will be married in a few months. For what it's worth, I'll share some of my thoughts on the subject. The foundation of my reasoning is: is birth control morally wrong, ie. is God opposed to it? In my experience in reading the Word, I...
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    Thoughts regarding [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]/cunninglus

    Hello all! I am not sure if this is the right place to post my question but here goes. I am approaching marriage and am starting to think about our future physical relationship, specifically whether or not [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]/cunninglus is 'morally' acceptable. To me, they seem demeaning and, for...