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Recent content by russmoon

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    Will i ever feel peace.

    I am so sorry you have had to go through so much suffering in life. You sound like a very strong woman though to have endured all that you have gone through. I don't think God will take your illness away but can give you strength to get better. Are you seeking some treatment or do you have...
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    How are we supossed to deal with those who refuse to know Christ?

    Try not looking at the faults of others and look instead at the faults you see in the mirror. Those are the ones you can change and that matter Judge not those that you don't know or understand
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    military

    What does the bible say about killing another human being? And more importantly-How do those of you in the military deal with this issue of having to take another life for your country and at the same time stay true to your faith?
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    Need Career Advice

    One more resource The govt. has an Occupational Outlook Handbook that describes about every profession on the planet-think it's OOH.gov or just google the title
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    Need Career Advice

    I too have a BA in psych (a worthless degree in terms of application to employment) I also have a MA in Ed. Psych and an MA in Bi-lingual studies and have worked as a career counselor. I think the bottom line is to find something you love to do. Find something your are passionate about. At the...
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    Missing Mass a mortal sin?

    response to question 2 I think the portrayal of heaven, Hell and purgatory are greatly inaccurate. Dante's work and much of the political involvement of the catholic church during the middle ages makes me quite skeptical. My personal belief of hell is a place without God
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    Question about Getting Married

    I would ask the same question-is it really any of your business to ask such a question? also "Well first off you are saying that you are a Christian and then you tell us that you living an adulterous affair". What are you saying here? you can't be a Christian if you are having sex and not...
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    how to be friends with a bar girl

    Are you looking for a friend or trying to show this person God? If you are looking for friendship (you say you have none) then perhaps you might want to look for others that share your views. I don't know where you are in the world but in most places you can find Christians-you just might have...
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    The Name of our Lord!

    My God does not live on a battlefield. My prayer is a place of peace and love
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    question about deceiving man

    Well most of us here are not affected by arranged marriages either. What culture are we talking about? It is for none of us to judge this man or your relationship. I would take it slow with this man. trust your heart and look at his behavior. And perhaps talk to him about this- what are his...
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    do I still have sin?

    make your peace and give yourself a break
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    Tattoos

    Getting a tattoo for reasons of vanity seems more of a sin to me, than having one. Tattoo's are symbols and/or messages that are our personal stories and personal reminders. A cross is a symbol-whether it is make of wood or ink. I think the more question with tattoo's here is in the message...
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    Pain and Promises

    I have posted on this thread before. I was in a relationship similar to yours many years ago. I learned that in the midst of it all I could not change this woman that I loved. I was trying so hard to make her well. In doing so, I was not taking care of myself. I also compromised my boundries...
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    advice with a girl i like... long plz read!

    I think she has asked you not to persue her in so many words. She values the friendship and has not expressed serious interest. The relationship ball is in her court. I would stop courting her. I would focus on myself-Improve the wonderful things you see in her life, in yours
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    A question that is gnawing away at my faith.

    Wonderwaleye This is from your biography "I love and care for all souls. I want to grow in truth, wisdom and understanding. I pray I may do the same for others". It seams to me that you do not present yourself as you describe in your bio. voicing forceful opinions as facts appears the...