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Recent content by rugrat

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    Seeking wisdom and advice (Crazy long Post)

    These are all of the bad and negative things I can come up with (believe me I am trying) If it is not readily apparent we care very much for each other. We are trying to follow God. We are taking these next few months to DTR (why I am posting here I need counsel) If it ends we will both be heart...
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    Seeking wisdom and advice (Crazy long Post)

    There are lots of other great things about her and the relationship, but it is time for me to get some concerns down. Concerns for both of us. ----- 1. We are young. She is almost 21 and I will soon be 20, but we are both young inexperienced in many areas of life, immature as young people are...
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    Seeking wisdom and advice (Crazy long Post)

    Alrighty fair warning this will be long... very very long. and detailed :preach: So I am in a relationship and I am looking for some advice. Preferably from some mature married "peoples" (I know you have got some wisdom that you can give). I will also add I am not posting here in place of...
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    Long distance, his unfaithfulness?

    Pray for him and about your situation, but I will say one thing also. If he is doing this now what is to say he will actually change when you are married. Someone doesn't change just because they get married. Problems unfortunately do not magically disappear. most importantly focus on God and...
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    Husband's Past Sexual Experiences and Porn Addiction While Engaged

    Now I am not married, however I am guy and I do disciple other guys in purity. I think porn is pretty big deal... Our society says its normal for men to view pornography. This doesn't have to be true and I don't think it should ever be normal. Porn is sin. It is very easy to access. The way...