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Recent content by RodSuber

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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    negative thoughts...sucha s we werent going to make it etc...
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    Cooking

    what else can we do together thats simple? were newly weds lol!
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    Financial Itimidation

    THIS IS MY FINANCIAL MASKEUP as of now....reality in 500.00 CREIDT CARD DEBT! Miscellaneous stuff (CAR TICKET 210.00) TUXEDO(80.00) (HOTEL forafter wed (200.00)....It was 900.00...but this monethly debt crap is geting to me........ *** Wifes Car just broke down a month ago and I had to...
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    Cooking

    I like to cook with my WIFE in the kitchen.....what kind of volkumes does this speak for our marriage?
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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    aactually the last bit of the statement was just a folly............ It was a hard time trusting him........Im trusting him more now...when I made this thread...my mind was in confusion OK so this is what it is #1 God did prompt us to get married...at the time we Got married...
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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    Your discernment as to what God was leading you to do was wrong or you are having a hard time trusting God and being patient until God brings about what you discern Him to be doing. EXACTLY!!!!! Im having a hard time TRUSTING HIM!!!!! becayuse things didnt turn out the way I thought theyt...
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    Financial Itimidation

    I dont tithe I cant affprd to...if I do Ill havbe 20 dollars to spend........for two weeks I get paid biweekly! i only bring 300 every two weeks! amd plus my wife is unmemplyed so I have to help her with her expenses...
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    Financial Itimidation

    I get a little itmidated when I everytime I recieve my check...becuase I know Im going to be lacking..... the reason is becuase of my expenses I split my paycheck up in percentages 10% DEBT or SAVINGS not 10% DEBT i wud like it to go towards savings! 20% FRIVULOUS SPENDIING 60%...
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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    @LINKH...thanks for ur insight...I =m self taught in martial arts....... I dont know how to play an insturment...Im an aspiring music producer....I already have degrees...in management and marketing........ I wanna do something in music job wise that has a base pay.......wher shall I be...
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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    @ AUTUMN LEAF///I saved up money for the wedding!!!
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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    ***You guys arent understanding this either.....God gave me the "motion" to move ahead "Thats my own personal vendetta that you guys proboly want be able to understand" I beleive I made the right choice...but Im having a hard time dealing with the issues that are arising "Im ready to move intop...
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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    You guys dont understand what Im saying.....((She found a job when we were engaged...so we made a move to move out...((we were geting married in August...she found the job in May.....so we were making plans to move out and everything was falling into place....THE SHE GOT LET GO.......
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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    I beleive it was in HIS PLAN for us to get MARRIED at that time......
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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    @McScribe What is the marketability of my skills? Jobs want people to have expereince and I only havbe experience in RETAIL....how can Iapply martial arts, music, and writing to a real world career? @ MKgall11 what was wrong with the timing? What other option did I have?
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    Whos In Control Of My Life!!!!! ((need Advice))

    Im good at music, writing, martial arts...but none of that is going to help us move forward!! ITs not going to bring in money at the rate we need it to move out!!!