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Recent content by rocker

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    I need help!

    Interesting philosophy there desi! I think I might just pass on that one...although it would be interesting to gauge her reaction! We will be getting counselling very soon...from our Pastor...we couldn't ask for a better marriage counselor....and he is free!!
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    I need help!

    You are right Desi...not out of the woods yet...but things look 100% better than they did even last week. Wow what a hard week. After my earlier post that I thought everything was resolved...boy was I wrong. Relapse...somebody warned me that it would happen and it did. I continued to monitor...
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    I need help!

    Thanks everyone so much for your great advice. I have taken some of the advice on board, some not. It happened on Friday night.....when I got home from work I wanted to create the atmosphere for a heart-to-heart talk so I didn't attempt to hide the fact that I was miserable....she asked...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    Hey Thom your story of Hosea inspired me It's all going to work out just great...see what God will do when you do things His way.
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    I need help!

    Thanks everyone for the great advice...especially sandman and brettnolan. Thanks for being so blunt and taking the time to reply. For some reason I am thinking more about my daughter in this situation more than anything else. I grew up in a broken home and vowed that would never happen to my...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    Hey Thom I feel for you man...it hurts a lot huh? I'll be praying for you
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    I need help!

    I don't know where else to turn about this and I don't want to tell anybody I know but here is the situation. My wife and I have been married for nearly 6 years and those years have been mostly happy ones. She is a stay-at-home mom with our 4 yr old and spends a lot of time on the...