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Recent content by robert0801

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    expecting someone to change...

    I appreciate the clarification but I'm still unclear of what you're suggesting I do about the situation. I'm the person who has "less love" apparently. The expectations and unmet demands are being placed on me, not her.
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    expecting someone to change...

    sweetdarcy: yes, it's very difficult to figure out. visionary: i appreciate the reply, but since i'm not a religious person, to just "relax" and wait for everything to work out really puts a lot of strain on the relationship and just forces one to suppress ones feelings. lynz: one of the...
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    expecting someone to change...

    i am currently separated, but starting down the reconciliation path. we have been married for 26 years. i'm the one who left. it's a known fact between my wife and i that she loves me more than i love her. it's not that i am holding back any love, or consciously trying not to love her more...