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Recent content by Rhayven

  1. Rhayven

    Please help! Did I do the right thing?

    You've made soul ties with her which is why you still think about her, it's hard bc little things will set it off. Eventually they will fade but you have to stay strong and look forward. I see that you are the same age as myself and I wish you the best. Just remember love is something to...
  2. Rhayven

    An Interesting Idea

    That really makes me think.
  3. Rhayven

    hey I'm Ashley and new here is this

    Hello and welcome to the board. Sorry to hear that you are having such a bad time. I'm not really here most of the time but I know there are people here that do know what they are taking about. I think the chat room thing would be on the first page. Once again, welcome to CF! kkthxbai
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    Blah

    Honestly you should break up totally. Being friends after a break up is a nono because there are things that are called "soul ties" soul ties take lots of time to heal and mend. Most of what I read in your post sounds to me like there are some that havnt healed yet. Going back into that...
  5. Rhayven

    Where does everyone work?

    I work as a sales rep at Best Buy. kkthxbai
  6. Rhayven

    Infatuations?

    Looking at them as a wife in the future, is probably not a good way to go. Take it like running a race, you run towards a finish line.. you run and run and run and when you least expect it your future partner will be running along side you... i didnt say you would veer off track but he/she will...
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    facebook?

    Its based off of the people you know. If you don't know a lot of people it's hard to get started.
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    Biggest attraction?

    clean, smart, good sense of humor, funny and knows how to have fun. Looks is not what I look in a guy. Most of the time.. better they look more insecure they are and that is a huge turn off for me.
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    Going Off to College, and I need some words of wisedom

    Be yourself and know that God will always be with you, even at college it might seem like Hes further and further away, don't worry He will be there for you. Stay true to who you are and don't be something you are not!
  10. Rhayven

    what r ur likes and dislikes ??

    bad breathe and dirty finger nails. I like everything else.
  11. Rhayven

    Anyone else?

    It's natural and God has put those feelings inside of you to find that woman, why shun those feelings where it's there for a reason. Act on it? No, you are young as I. We have a whole life ahead of us so don't focus to much on it now, even though it might seem crazy not to. I say focus on...
  12. Rhayven

    Downloading movies and music

    I do believe if you bought it, you have the right to do whatever you want to do with it and not be controlled by the government on how to use it.
  13. Rhayven

    Fasting

    Awesome, Fasting without prayer is just a diet. ;))) I have and my mind is totally blown. -mind blown.
  14. Rhayven

    generation gap

    Most of the time they are the way they are because they love you. It's not something you probably want to hear but it's true. They have experiences that you don't have and they don't want you to go through what they do. So next time you think they are getting on your case just listen to them...
  15. Rhayven

    Singe, needs encourgment....

    Just be yourself, and pray for God's purpose. God will add unto you. His time is perfect, our time is our own misconceptions. So many times we think that God is on our clock frame. Totally wrong, we need/should be on His. So don't worry, being a PK doesn't mean anything! Celebrate that you have...