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Recent content by Redguard

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    Jealousy and Emotional Affairs

    Yes... I would've mentioned it but I feared my post had gotten too long. It was sort of a Round 2 on that topic because we'd had a long talk on that already this past Friday. Friday was when she headed down to the gym to watch a televised stream of a fight in Vegas featuring a local fighter...
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    Jealousy and Emotional Affairs

    A few of you have asked in your posts whether we're seeking professional counselling. The answer to that is yes. We've just had trouble finding one nearby that meets our criteria (Christian based AND professionally designated/credentialed). We ended up talking last night about the stuff that I...
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    Jealousy and Emotional Affairs

    I'll talk to her. I was on the phone with her just now and she's going through a tough time with her family (they're very verbally abusive). So I'm trying to drop the whole subject right now. She still asked what was on my mind this morning, but I don't know how to broach the subject now...
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    Jealousy and Emotional Affairs

    Thanks DayHiker, I'll definitely think on this.
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    Jealousy and Emotional Affairs

    I've always considered it to be stronger than my own. She's pretty diligent with reading her devotionals and journaling on whatever she's read. She also attends a women's study group that focuses on avoiding temptation in the form of bad food and how to treat your body like the temple of God.
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    Jealousy and Emotional Affairs

    This was something that I wanted to say to her the night that she was heading out to watch the fight (while I stayed home with the kids). My concern was that she'd feel like I wasn't enjoying the new her. There has been no end to the compliments that she now receives from friends and...
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    Jealousy and Emotional Affairs

    Hey there. The chemistry has been an ongoing challenge that we've been working through. Realizing this, we did a couple of group courses at our church provided by the Marriage Ministry. This is where we learned to address some of the weak links in our relationship. Our sex life struggled...
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    Jealousy and Emotional Affairs

    Yeah, definitely. It seems like the obvious answer. We've done those "His Needs, Her Needs" courses as well as the "Five Love Languages" courses. So the concept of Love Banks and affection are well known to us. With this in mind, I have been making the efforts to fill up her love bank...
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    Jealousy and Emotional Affairs

    Hi... So I'm really struggling right now with something and it's of a nature that I'm not prepared to share with someone that actually KNOWS me. And heck, I used to pour my heart out on here many years ago, so I think this might be the audience to help guide me through. Now, I totally expect...
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    "Hot wife" Christian t-shirt? What do you think?

    Yeah, you can verify it at urbandictionary.com. But even that site is one that I suggest with a "proceed with caution" warning. Not because of any porn warnings, but because a lot of slang terms get defined by users who use a lot of profanity.
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    "Hot wife" Christian t-shirt? What do you think?

    It's a TRAP!! Not sure if anyone is aware of this, but a "hot wife" is a term given to wives that have permission from their husbands to have sex with other men... usually while the husband watches (and enjoys).
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    That "manly" handshake

    The "manly" handshakes are supposed to be reserved for other men.
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    You all staying safe?

    Honestly, snow storms are less about the actual snow... and more about a city's ability to "deal" with the snow. For a city like Dallas, I'm sure there isn't a lot of money budgeted annually for snow removal or road salting purposes. And even if you do, how efficient is the equipment compared...
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    iPhone - Game Center

    Anyone here play Gamecenter compatible games on their iPhone? Like Angry Birds or Flight Control? What are some of your favourite games? Also, share your Game Center id if you'd like to compare scores with others. :thumbsup:
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    i cant stand childish women(and men)

    Haters gonna hate.