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Recent content by redblue22

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    Submissive vs equal partnership

    I had no idea you weren't.
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    Submissive vs equal partnership

    Don't leave off the best part. How dare a woman say no to you.
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    Submissive vs equal partnership

    I don't really think about relationships as submissive or equal. For some reason it reminds me of people who believe that you must either be the controller or the one controlled. They see the whole world through that lens. I do not understand why anyone must be a leader. We aren't charging...
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    Do Christian guys exist?

    yes yes, if you go to a birthday party, you're damned for hell.
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    Men, do you feel comfortable in the role of leader?

    I don't know if I would ever be comfortable in such a serious position.
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    Do Christian guys exist?

    So, what other sins and temptations do you plan on working on now? Certainly sexual sin and temptation isn't all. But since sex is pretty private and you opened that door, we can talk about just about anything else.
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    Do Christian guys exist?

    Jesus was all for partying.
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    Do Christian guys exist?

    What is the "real work"? Examples?
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    Do Christian guys exist?

    Dating is a good thing because you get to know people and you know yourself better. And if you wait to marry, you get to know that person you see for a long time. But absence make the heart go wander. During that time of years, you can deal with other sins and temptations besides sexual...
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    Do Christian guys exist?

    Thank you.
  11. redblue22

    Do Christian guys exist?

    Where did you come up with that?
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    Do Christian guys exist?

    I find sex to be an interesting choice for deciding on who is or is not a Christian.
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    Men, do you feel comfortable in the role of leader?

    nothing to tell. :)
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    Which is the bigger sin?

    I don't see the church focusing on either.
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    Men, do you feel comfortable in the role of leader?

    Record? I think you and I have talked about this before.