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Recent content by RecklessDefector

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    How to handle a friend being gay?

    Where is there either of those fallacies? If you really saw them in my post, perhaps you'd like to point them out? Is it ad hominem to point out the absurdity of your argument? There's no such thing as "same sex attraction disorder". I can make up disorders too, "Christian belief disorder"...
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    Pre-Tipping

    He said he started to show tell her she needed to come to Jesus, and had a Youtube video loaded up before he gave up on it. That's still going waaaaayyyy too far. It wasn't her fault, she needed a job to survive, so she took whatever she felt was the best opportunity and now works there. She's...
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    Charlotte Observer: Get Over Fear of Male Genitalia, Ladies

    I've used the women's bathroom my whole life, being a woman, and I've never even seen genitalia in the bathroom. There's these things called stalls, and you go into them, lock them and do your business. I don't care if transwomen use the bathroom. There's no evidence trans people are more likely...
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    "Thank you for your service"

    It's because Americans have been effectively brainwashed into believing there is some kind of terrorist threat against their country, and that soldiers are above reproach and must be worshipped. I don't thank any soldier or police officer for their service. It was their choice. I saw a picture...
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    I have asked this before, so..

    Those "pregnancy support" centres are actually scams, they lie to women, impersonate doctors and tell women they'll get breast cancer or become infertile if they have abortions. I know a Christian family who kicked their 16 year old son out because his girlfriend was on the BC pill (because of...
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    Pre-Tipping

    You know servers only make about 2$ an hour? They rely on tips for to live on, so unless "coming to Jesus" pays the bills, I think you're in the wrong here. In fact, it's the religious part in the US who has allowed the wage for servers to be that low. In addition, getting angry at a server is...
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    Spirit filled college suggestions?????

    The entire point of going to college is to have your beliefs challenged and to widen your world-view. What's the point of going to college if you only want one that will re-affirm what's been spoon fed to you your entire life? Go to a college that's diverse, teaches the facts, and keeps religion...
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    I have asked this before, so..

    While unusual, you have to admit the majority of Christians these days would not accept your behaviours, as nudity is considered a sin unless you're alone or with your spouse. I don't know what country you're from, but in North America my experience with several branches of Christianity has been...
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    How to handle a friend being gay?

    Murder: violently taking the life of another and destroying the lives of that person's family and friends forever Homosexuality: consenting adults doing what they want in the bedroom How are these equal? Your God also calls eating lobster and all shellfish an abomination, just as much as...
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    What it's like to be given to Jesus

    One can help and "serve" others without following the Christian religion, or any religion at all. Belief is not a prerequisite for benevolent behavior.
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    What it's like to be given to Jesus

    Witchcraft is about taking back your own personal power from Christianity. You say it's sinful, and evil, but if God created us to be sinful and evil, and rebel, just so he could test us, what kind of God is that? If what you say is true, we're nothing but a game to God, just a little experiment...
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    I have asked this before, so..

    In Christian religion women are forced to be incubators for children, effectively giving ownership of their reproductive organs to the "men" in their lives. They're also pressured to cover up, when I went to Catholic school I was constantly told I was not "modest" enough despite always meeting...
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    What it's like to be given to Jesus

    The only time my depression has alleviated has been when I realized my own personal power to affect change. I've been practicing witchcraft since I was a child, it always came naturally to me, and the times when it was suppressed by my family and church have been the only times my depression has...
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    Donald Trump on recording: Not me

    It was obviously him, and this is just another lie heaped onto the pile of lies he's already spewed. He's ridiculous, his supporters are ridiculous, and my family and I had a great time laughing ourselves silly at the coverage from this ridiculous event. I feel more and more thankful every day I...
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    Is Man evolving?

    Humans are continually evolving, as we have evolved for millions of years to get to where we are now. Consider the simple fact of wisdom teeth. Compared with our early human ancestors, we have smaller jaws. Many people are born without wisdom teeth, and those that are often need them removed as...