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Recent content by rdizzle

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    What is my problem?

    You know that is something I always wanted was closure. Shortly after we broke up she started seeing someone else, and it really hurt. I took it really hard and I just couldn't understand how she could do that to me. So I said things I didn't mean and she in turn said somethings. So we had a...
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    What is my problem?

    Hi Everyone, I wrote a few months back about someone I had broken up with and how her life completely changed after it. Well since then, I haven't talked to her or anything, but I still can't forgive myself for how I treated her and not being there when she needed me. I know that we would...
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    Why Do I Feel This Way, Help

    I just want to say thank you for everyone helping me get through this difficult time. It took a relationship like this one to realize what I need to work on. I had never been so in love and I had never been happier. So when I lost her I just couldn't figure out why. I never thought about a...
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    Why Do I Feel This Way, Help

    For all of you who would like to know what actually happened without being too personal here it is. Our intimacy connection went out the window when I said she wasn't good at something in that department. It was in the middle of the night and I don't even remember saying it until she brought...
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    Why Do I Feel This Way, Help

    In a sense I still feel like I am a little to blame for the situation she is now. After we broke up I said something awful things I didn't really mean and I tried to apologize for them, but she just wouldn't accept it. I was just really hurt that she moved on so fast so I lashed back at her...
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    Why Do I Feel This Way, Help

    Nothing hurts more than knowing that I didn't show her why I loved her. It is something I will always regret. My heart just keeps breaking and I keep praying that this pain will go away, but it only gets worse. Can someone explain to me why I didn't show my feelings to her. As time went on I...
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    Why Do I Feel This Way, Help

    These comments have helped quite a bit. Thanks. There is nothing more I want for her than happiness. Maybe having a child will bring happiness to her life. I just regret pushing her away and causing her not love me anymore. It was never intentional. I guess I needed to realize what it means...
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    Why Do I Feel This Way, Help

    Thanks for the replies. I guess I am more upset on how I messed up the relationship more than where she is now. It just added to it. I didn't treat her how she should had been treated and I wasn't understanding to her situation when we were together. She gave me chances to realize what I did...
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    Why Do I Feel This Way, Help

    Hi Everyone, Here is my situation. About two months back my girlfriend broke up with me because she thought I didn't love her anymore. She had gone through some difficult times before this and I just wasn't there for her like she wanted me to be. Mainly because I had never been in a situation...