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Recent content by rainman11

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    Please pray over my financial situation....

    Hello, since my last message, I have now one solution so far to come up with the mortgage I need. It's better than nothing but it's not ideal. So please continue to pray that I get the second mortgage from the seller that I need. It's really important if I'm to get the place and still have any...
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    Very important financial need - urgent prayer needed

    Hello, I'm trying to find a mortgage. I have until May 12th. I have various people I'm talking with but so far nothing. I really need to get this mortgage. Please pray that someone will come through for me before that due date. It would really mean a lot to me. Thank you.
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    Prayer to find a soulmate...

    This is kinda hard to even talk about... But my situation is that I'm now in my early 30's, still single and just completely drained when it comes to trying to find someone. I've had 3 pathetic relationships in the past, so it's not all bad, but I honestly wasn't even in love with any of...
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    Opinions from men AND women needed!

    I've tried that, and unless you're town is so darn small that there's not enough matches in the dating pool which must be a tiny town, then forget long distance dating. The only other way is if say you found a job in that city and you're 100% positive you're moving there like you have a moving...
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    Please pray that my girlfriend finds Christ

    Hello, my girlfriend of six years is a non-christian. She's a little slow so to speak so it's hard to have her understand the importance of being a christian. She knows I'm one and accepts it but isn't interested in becoming one. Please pray that she finds Jesus and gets saved. I don't want to...
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    Social problems :(

    that's bizzare because in some respect that describes me perfectly. Ya I have all those same problems. Add to that never been in a real adult loving relationship. I've been in long term relationships but I wasn't really in love. I have had great success in business. I'm a millionaire actually...
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    He Kissed someone else

    Time and tears heal.
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    pray that I get the 2nd mortgage

    hello, I'm on the verge of the biggest deal of my life. It could be a blessing that would truly change my life. I just have to qualify for this second mortgage that I'm working on. I just ask that you'll pray that I get it. I'm just hoping and praying that this property purchase will work out...
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    How long do you need to know someone before you date?

    So have you asked her out yet?
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    How much honesty is important?

    So how do you really know if they're a virgin. They might just say they are to please you if they know that's what you want. Also what one day you're like 40 or something and still looking. I'm not sure how many 18 year old girls want to date 40 year old men. And not even many of those are still...
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    My latest observation

    Girls are telling me they want to date me????? Where ???? where????.....hmmmmm......maybe the system isnt' working all that well because I didn't get those PM's?
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    A gift for the guys

    Did you here that now there's a new debate raging about if they should allow Arab women who are school teachers to wear their chador to school so that the kids can't see their face? They're claiming it's their right to freedom of religion. It's like go back to where you came from if you wanna...
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    Struggling with Premarital Sex Concepts

    One thing to keep in mind is that having sex for the very first time is usually for most fairly akward. You really don't know what you're doing, sometimes it ends to quickly because you can't control yourself yet, you're nervous so again hard to enjoy things as much with your nerves getting in...
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    Struggling with Premarital Sex Concepts

    Why don't you just go find a girlfriend? I mean guys your age should be at least dating. And who knows maybe you'll find a nice girl to marry.
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    Why are you single?

    I think it has a lot to do with ones beliefs. And honestly I think it has a lot to do with how your dating life went back in JR high, and high school. If it went good, then you'd have built up the confidence at an early age to have that solid belief, that "I can and usually do meet the kind of...