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Recent content by rach

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    When You Can't Stand Someone!

    I guess I would just try to talk to him, but I know that might be really hard, and he probably won't listen. I would just continue letting him know that you care about him, and want what's best for him. This is really hard to do, but hopefully it will make a difference. I have a friend who...
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    guy question

    I'm not so sure about that, but thanks I guess. :)
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    guy question

    I guess I'm the minority, so maybe it's just the guys here.
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    roommate joke (read out loud)

    Sorry I tried. :( :P
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    Non-Christian Friends, and Befriending Sinners

    That is a very good point!
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    Non-Christian Friends, and Befriending Sinners

    I honestly don't have many non-christian friends, and think that it's good that you do have some, I know I should look for new friends more, in order to help spread God's word, as you are doing. I do think that like so many other things that you do have to find a good or perfect balance. You...
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    guy question

    Is there a reason that guys don't want to be friends with girls for the sake of being friends? It seems like whenever a guy "pursues" a friendship with a girl the ultimate reason is to become a dating couple. Not that it's bad being friends first, actually I think that's a great idea, it's just...
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    need advice

    I completely agree with Dave. And just to add a little, if you follow through with these boundaries, then not only will your wedding day be better, but if something happens before you get married then you won't be such a mess afterwards. Believe me physical stuff just leads to more heartache...
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    Soulmate

    I was (and actually still am) in a similar situation. Only he broke my heart, and all I can say is that you need to go to God about it, and if it's meant to be, it will be. I know this sucks, and that you really want to "fix it" but really if she no longer thinks of you as her love, then there...
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    roommate joke (read out loud)

    At first I thought you were serious, and it hurt my heart, then I now see you are joking so all is well... To be fair I did try to explain it the best I could, however it would be much funnier if you would have been here! :P :)
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    roommate joke (read out loud)

    Ok, my friend and I made this one up the other day, but you must understand and say the word "room" like "womb..." So, you ask someone..."Do you have a twin?" Then they say no (unless they do have a twin:P) And then ask "Did you ever have a "wombmate?" LOL LOL Get it "roommate/wombmate"...
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    Bringing Man to Woman?

    Agreed!
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    Long Distance Marriages/Courting

    CF is just Christian Forums, just shortened.
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    God's will?

    I don't know what to tell you. I mean if you guys stayed pure and then moved apart, then it seems like you have been focused on God's will, which is a good thing. So I don't know why you are acting emotionally. Do you think you need to go to the doctor or something? Are you stressed because...
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    What to do?

    I think that this is a good decision, even though it kind of sucks because I'm sure you want to know what is gonna happen. Just letting God take over is sometimes really difficult, even though it seems SO EASY!! Good luck, and continue to pray about it!