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Recent content by R.J

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    I'm Homeless But I'm Happy

    edit: doublepost for some reason
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    I'm Homeless But I'm Happy

    I can only speak for myself but I think in our society there are some very "odd birds" who just simply don't fit into our modern system. If you are one of those and would be happy living a different kind of life outside the established "rules" I obviously can't deceide. All I can do is share...
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    Not sure how to express this, :( lost and damned

    Thanks FutureandAhope and aiki for your replies. Like I wrote earlier I was planning to visit a church but hasn't happened yet. Was standing outside for a short while then just kept walking past. Things are different here in scandinavia when it comes to going to church I quess, felt like...
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    Not sure how to express this, :( lost and damned

    Thanks bluelime for your post. I probably should have not edited my original post would have been nice to just let it all out. However it did help just writing it even though I deleted it in the end. Have deceided to visit a church tomorrow. No to pray or anything but just to sit and...
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    Can one choose to believe?

    Thanks for the reply. I understand the point you are trying to make but I think it falls flat. Because if someone innocent would take my place I would do everything in my power to stop them. I would not want anyone else suffer because of things I have done, it is morally bankrupt. Where they...
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    Can one choose to believe?

    My biggest struggle with christianity is loving god. I do not have a desire to fall on my knees for any being, proclaim I am unworthy and worship them. I just can't care for something that I have never had a relationship with. If some stranger walks up to you and says "I love you" how can you...
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    Not sure how to express this, :( lost and damned

    edit: deleted , feeling to embarressed to have this post out there. Sorry for taking up forumspace, don't know how to delete the whole thread.