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Recent content by purplesky

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    When's the big day? And how's the planning?

    I am 7 weeks away now, and my biggest things left to organise are the decorations for the chruch and reception venue. I have ideas for the reception venue, but a bit stumped about how to do the church. Have a relative doing the cake, waiting for a response from her about whether our choice is...
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    Is your SO "hot", "cute", both, or neither?

    the description 'hot' seems a little too "i want to get into your pants" for me, i can't use it. but cute, yes, definately cute. Also gorgeous, handsome, attractive...:P Shell
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    Are any couples saving their first kiss until their wedding day? Or did?

    Our first kiss will also be with the knowledge that we will spend the rest of our lives together! :P FH and i have had a rather serious discussion since my last post about how we will go about that kiss at the alter, so we now have an action plan, and that makes me feel better. I agree that...
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    H2B cheated- only found out now 4 weeks before wedding- please help

    i don't know how much help i can be, but i commend you on your Godly reaction to this news. I don't know many people who could have been stong enough to came to as many decisions as you have in one day. I am also astounded by his bravery and honesty in confessing this so close to your wedding...
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    "the one" first time

    My fiance told me on the day he asked me out that he intended to marry me. And this is his first relationship. It took me a month or two before I knew I could marry him, and we started talking about it around that time. I have had a few relationships in the past, but i didn't think any of...
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    handling times of stress

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    Need some help about the unmentionable...

    Thank you for hearing the voice of God deep within you, and for recognising it for what it was. I too pray that you don't walk that path in your life - all you can possibly acheive with it is the feeding of your own lust. It will not satiate your desires, will only make them harder to ignore...
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    Wedding Guests

    I will be having the gospel preached within my wedding ceremony too, and it is normal in my particular church circle too. We are getting our pastor to actually marry us, and a close friend and ministry trainee to give a talk, incorporating both the biblical meaning of marriage and the gospel...
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    Are any couples saving their first kiss until their wedding day? Or did?

    I'm waiting. glad to know that i am not the only one, and would love responses from someone who is married who waited too. I became christian later in life, after having several boyfriends and taking the physical relationship too far with them, so my fiance decided when we started going out...
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    Check in for those engaged ...

    Met June 2006, been in relationship since October 21 2006, engaged 4th November 2007, to be married 12th July, 2008. YAY!!
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    Meeting/finding someone

    I met my boyfriend at a church function at University, and all of a sudden our lives started being in the same place at the same time, 'cause he was everywhere I was after that! I agree with BeautifulDestiny - God knows what he is doing.
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    I was cheated on

    Ouch. I'm really sorry you have had to go through this. I know that you have broken up with her, but my first question is whether that breakup is final, or if you are interested in working things out with her. Either way you need to work at prayerfully forgiving her - "Therefore I tell you...
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    a first time for everything

    Hi, I have been observing this site for a few weeks, and have enjoyed learning perspectives on a variety of topics from fellow christians from all around the world. I have decided to join you, and have joined my first online community in doing so! Yay! This is my first ever post, and so i'm...