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Seriously, I have many family members who've never voted in the past, but they registered this year just to vote for Biden. We aren't the sort of people to put bumper stickers on our cars, put up signs, or attend rallies. Some of us see thru the rhetoric and see no way forward with a leader like...

Green energy Universal healthcare Biden's tax plan Start to heal division in the country Progress & change There are a lot of things I want out of the Biden/Harris administration. They won't be as progressive as we need, but they can stop the negative momentum & get us turned in the right direction.

Anything substantive would've been dropped already. Hello early voting? My husband and I dropped our ballots today w/ millions of other voters.

You know what, I only ever see White liberals and occasional Black politicians discuss reparations as a thing that should happen. It isn't discussed in Black families because I'm sure most of us are aware it would only spark more violence. It would literally put a target on our backs...

That is your opinion. To me, 16 & 17 yr olds are young children. If they aren't educated and self supporting; they likely don't know enough about life to determine who they want to bind themselves to for it And how would a 16 or 17 yr old have a serious partner of several years? Really...

This man didn't murder his child 50 years ago.

No child needs to be married.

The child is powerless, the adult is not. The adult doesn't even have to confront the abuser directly- that is what the police are for. Fear does not exonerate adults from doing what needs to be done.

I really wish people wouldn't bring up ancient practices in these discussions. I don't know a single woman alive today who thinks marriage 2000 years ago is something she would've liked. If I woke up 2000 years in the past & couldn't escape, I'd defenestrate. As far as today goes- No child...

Alabama is a "stand your ground" state. Basically, you are allowed to act like an utter fool with no regard for life as long as the other person starts it & you claim to fear for your life. This is not the first time someone in such a state responded with deadly force to someone without a...

He is aware of the issue statistically, but it has never been a hinderance for him. He's dated some average Western women so... Honestly, I have questions for any study that just lumps "Asians" together in the USA. I imagine dating success varies among ethnic groups similar to education and...

My husband considers himself normal & he is among his peers. That said, his peers are college educated men, physically active, strong careers & more assets than debt. As I said before, I'm a nerd- nearly all of my friends growing up were Asian (that was the nerd demographic in my area). We're...

1. Lol, I'm not talking about being too groomed. I'm talking about bathing & brushing teeth. The basics 2. I think a lot of that has to do with a mix of cultural values. 3. I mean he carries himself with the confidence that comes from being successful and achieving goals. That goes far...

Here's the thing. It isn't my movement. I don't identify as a feminist because of issues I have with aspects of the movement. Minority women are often not heard in the movement and we have to fight for that. People see their own perspective most clearly- that has always been the case and the...

1. Being a woman, I have women friends. Believe me, there are plenty of men who do not worry about their appearance to the degree that even their personal hygiene is lacking. Most men seem to think about their looks in passing and declare "good enough" no matter what. 2. I told my husband...