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Recent content by pleoavce

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    All the wrong reasons, how to end it?

    I've been in a relationship for about 4 months now, and for about 2 weeks I have been spending crazy time with God, and I feel He is leading me to end the relationship, for several reasons. 1. I got into the relationship out of loneliness- I live in a small town where there isn't really...
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    Just thought this was good for Courting Couples....

    This is an excellent video, it spoke to me. Because I never understood why God will bring me someone who initially I DONT like. LOL. We aren't the slightest compatible, but this makes me love him even more. So amazing...
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    He is analytical about everything.

    I decided to wait ultimately. I don't see the need of rushing. Me and Him worked out our differences, as there will be some. Sometimes I think people rush to get married on emotion, and I don't think that is wise. Love is a decision so yes, @Nihilist I agree to some extent. My fiancee has no...
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    He is analytical about everything.

    I think you may be right !
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    He is analytical about everything.

    How would I handle a guy who is analytical with everything? Like everything is about thinking? There is a guy thats pursuing me and I don't now how to go about it. He has all the qualities, but the only quality he is missing seems to be emotions.He hasn't been in a relationship for 9 years...
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    Mother doesn't want me to marry?

    Thanks for all the advice! I will definitely take heed to it...
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    Mother doesn't want me to marry?

    Hello, :) I have been in a relationship with an amazing man of God and we have decided we want to marry in the next year or so. My mother does not like the idea and wants me to finish school first.(I am 21) She thinks that, God hasn't sent me husband yet, and that I shouldn't rush to marry...
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    Questions about dating?

    Well, My boyfriend and I have set boundaries. We agree to only holding hands and pecking...no touching below the waist, chest, or french kissing. We want to remain pure until we are married so we set these boundaries. Anything that can incite the feelings of lust, or desire we stay away from
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    Dad has been out of my life for 20 years. I want a relationship but he wont contact

    In less than seven days since I've made this post, God has heard my prayers and my Dad called, I dont know how it happened, but all I know is that what can't God do? I am in shocked, God heard my cries and answered, My father wants me to come down for Christmas and I'm so overwhelmed and filled...
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    Dad has been out of my life for 20 years. I want a relationship but he wont contact

    Thank you so much Luther for seeing my side. Everyone is telling me to forget about him and not forgive him, but I am a Christian and its who I am and I just dont know how to do that. =) Good news: I've been talking to my sister, and she told me my father definitely wants to get to know me, but...
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    Dad has been out of my life for 20 years. I want a relationship but he wont contact

    I feel like this is true. But NOT the case for me. I happen to walk with Christ in every area of my life. It's not that I am stalking my father and searching all over because I have yet to call his phone even though I have the number, and I have yet to speak to Him.But I am a Christian, I put...
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    Dad has been out of my life for 20 years. I want a relationship but he wont contact

    Oh he is definitely "Christian". LOL. My Mum wants him to contact me, I'm not forcing him, all I want him to know is that I forgive Him, because I do feel it is guilt and a lot of other emotions that is keeping him back. When I spoke to my Aunt she told me he was excited, he even asked for my...
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    Dad has been out of my life for 20 years. I want a relationship but he wont contact

    So true! I'm just placing it in God's hands, Thank you for your input.
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    Dad has been out of my life for 20 years. I want a relationship but he wont contact

    Truthfully, I think the reason why I havent contacted him has been fear: so I reach out to my Aunts and surrounding people instead of him directly. My dad has health problems and I dont want to cause any shock or anything. According to my Aunt he want to contact me. My mother has been all for...