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Recent content by plainolmelissa

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    Newly divorced, not my choice

    Thank you for the advice. I have been keeping myself busy on the weekends. During the week is busy enough. On the weekends its running the kids here n there, house projects, church and friends. Somehow I still manage to find time to be sad. But I keep telling myself I will get through this. My...
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    Newly divorced, not my choice

    Thank you for the kind words olds. Makes me oh so sad. Weekends are the worst. And I constantly question my giving in. I see it as God never gives up on me. Even after my less than full devotion he doesn't give up on me. But I gave up on my husband. God wouldn't give up on him. So why is...
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    Newly divorced, not my choice

    He's the one that left. He's the one that filed the paperwork. He's the one that said he can't do it anymore. He's the one who said he won't do counseling again (we did the last time he wanted a divorce and it helped). I really wanted us to be together for life. I was in it for life! Makes...
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    Newly divorced, not my choice

    Hi everyone, I'm new here. About 3 weeks ago my husband decided he wanted a divorce after almost 17 years together. He said he still loves me but yet he can't handle when there's any conflict in life. Every year, for the last 10 years or so, if we get in an argument or disagreement he...