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    my wife is an alcholic.

    thanks Trish. thank you for your reply, thoughts etc.
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    my wife is an alcholic.

    My wife went out and did not return tonight, she is drinking, the guy she had a fling with tel. me to say she had tel. him to say she was drunk. I want to talk to my wifes mother about it. as I feel she would step in and help her daughter. I am not going to alanon right now as it does...
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    I dont feel comfortable in the way my church works.

    They have recently re ordered my parish church. I agree with you about the odd way this is often undertaken, I wrestled and still wrestle with it. all in all the end result is better than I expected though. The interesting thing I would ask is; Is there any democracy about the proposal...
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    my wife is an alcholic.

    I have attended al anon now for several evenings. please tell me, am I being silly? 1. I am ill at ease sometimes, because there is so much procedure and little talk time. No challenge to sin or evil is offered. 2. The elder members say how al anon is a replacement for church / their...
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    friend is down.

    Just to say I had lunch with my depressed friend, to be honest it was awkward as the silences were tricky, no matter, I did not take him out to give myself a good time and I can see that being there for him from time, is as good as anything. He seems a bit odd possibly due the high strength...
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    my wife is an alcholic.

    Thanks, all of you, my life as a result, I feel of your prayers has much improved and I have had a whole week now of peace and happines at home thank you !!!!!!!!!
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    friend is down.

    all of above THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP ! Great to have supported prayer. I will let you know how lunch goes. Plainandsimple.
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    friend is down.

    I like all of us have my difficulties in this life, however I have a question, a friend 35 years, he has been my friend, he is depressed, doctor is aware, he is on leave from work. at its worst he looks at the ceiling in silence or answer questions with few words, seems it is clinical depression...
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    my wife is an alcholic.

    thanks for your well considered and caring reply, I said at a meeting "I am one of the lucky ones I awake most mornings to a sober wife and things are normal, I do not have the trouble all the time." I know we need help, rehab could be the way, AA /Alanon the start. Thanks so much...
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    my wife is an alcholic.

    Put simply she had an affair, this has emerged / faded away over time line of 3 years, side effect for her has been consumption of wine, cider etc She does it to block out feelings for the other guy / guilt / boredom with our life together - these my assumptions, she cannot express herself...
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