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Recent content by PilgrimLady

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    WOW.. so glad to find you all

    This has been a source of consternation and many a battle in my own marriage because my husband won't stand up to his ex, and now that's turning into the same issue with his rebellious daughter. Unfortunately, there is a whole generation of men who've been effeminized by vicious exes and...
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    Biological father over for Christmas

    When your daughter's biological father/sperm donor abandoned her when she was a baby, he forfeited any and all "rights" to her and that needs to be made clear to your wife. It's only by your grace towards him that he's allowed contact with her in the first place (and I think that's probably a...
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    God help me, but I don't like her!

    Your step-daughter sounds as though she has sociopathic tendencies, as does my fourteen year-old step-daughter (compulsive lying, interest only in material things, living in a false reality, etc.) whose mother is certifiably nuts. Don't discount generational sin, either. I feel for you and I...
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    Stepparents, where are you?

    I am a step-parent without any children of my own with a husband twelve years my senior. He is a wonderful, caring man who has been following Christ for about 2 1/2 years, so still young in the Lord (whereas I grew up in a Christian home and knew Jesus from age 5). Yes, entering a marriage...