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Recent content by phillev

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    God and OCD

    Thanks for the kind words, my OCD has grasped hold and basically said I don't want God to exist which has given me massive guilt. I think what I meant was that if I knew for sure he didn't then the horrible thoughts would be meaningless and it would be easier. The thoughts are about making...
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    God and OCD

    I've had OCD for over forty years and without going into detail I've been having a few issues with it and God, I happened to say to myself the other day that if he does indeed exist it would be easier for me due to these thoughts if he didn't as they are horrible and doing my head in and now I...
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    Vows, promises etc.

    Hello and thank you for the reply, I am familiar with ERP and have had the therapy and I do still use those tools to try and help my thought process. In fact some of the treatment would actually be to say and record the feared vow and listen to it over and over until my brain basically becomes...
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    Vows, promises etc.

    Hi everyone, please bear with me on this. I've had OCD for as long as I can remember and I'm now 54. My biggest issue lately has been making promises and vows and bearing in mind my OCD is harm related I don't really want to elaborate too much but sometimes they are horrible ones that pop into...