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Recent content by pheaton

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    Missouri school district to allow spanking as part of opt-in corporal punishment policy

    My oldest four attended school in Singapore before we moved to Malaysia. Many schools in Singapore use corporal punishment, though only for boys. At my sons school they had a list of offences that earned a stroke of the cane, and if the offence was repeated they were given two strokes, three...
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    Anyone in Malaysia?

    I'm Malaysian Chinese Lived here and in Singapore, back here 10 years now. About 10% of us here are christian, anyone else here? Faye
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    Why Not Have a Bunch of Kids?

    I have six, oldest is 22 and youngest is 6 so quite a gap. Its our choice, i always wanted a big family and so did my husband. I'm chinese, he is american, big family not expected in either of our cultures. Faye
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    Would you sent your child to school which allows corporal punishment?

    Both my boys attended schools in Singapore, where boys are caned. Girls are not however. Now in Malaysia they attend schools that do not cane. My oldest son was given a stroke of the cane when he was 11, the younger one wasn't caned in his 2 years there. The school gave one stroke for the...
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    intro

    I'm Faye, baptist from Malaysia, and married mother of four. Look forward to joining discussions. Faye