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Recent content by peterdjames

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    Is sexual desire commen as you approach youy wedding date?

    If you read the book of Song of Solomon in the Bible you'll notice that they are thinking a lot about sex before they get married. But they also say that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases. Ask God for wisdom as to what that means. That said, lust is still a temptation when you...
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    Addicted to Pornography

    There is hope. God promises to finish the work he began in you. It takes a long time and there are a lot of ups and downs, but he will do it. At the same time, you need to work hard as if he has given you the strength to do it (easier said than done, but remember it is him working in you)...
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    There is a battle inside of me.

    I'm fairly inexperienced with this struggle, but I think I can try to point you in a direction for finding answers. There are two posts on my blog that explain a little bit about God's design for human sexuality and why he designed things the way he did. I try to focus especially on why that...