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Recent content by peglew

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    I have had ENOUGH!

    I've felt that way so many times. Life is so hard. Sometimes I just feel like giving up. Many times felt abandoned by God and alone doing it on my own. Then people start giving advice instead of comfort and sitting with me in the pain so at least I wouldn't be alone in the pain. I don't feel...
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    Myers Brigg Type Indicator

    Hey, anyone like the MBTI and analyzing people?
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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    I feel like I've met a kindred spirit! That was also beautifully written :)
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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    Me too!! Thank you for sharing that. A great way to put it!
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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    Yes, I agree God has put a desire in us for a mate. I think that desire reflects God's own desire for a mate. When I said that the thread seems to be seeking after what the world values in people instead of God, I meant that few posts mentioned about seeking God in their future mate and being...
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    Umm, silly question maybe?

    Geez, it seems like I can only read the first page of each post, so sorry if my reply has been repeated.. Having been in 3.5 long term relationships, I would say its different with every person. But I agree with Dayhiker about both of you feeling comfortable with what you two are doing. So if...
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    Names Changes ~ The Official Thread

    um...so how does one do a name change?
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    Sci-Fi BOOKS - what do you recommend?

    Ender's Game! winner of both Hugo and Nebula awards! Has everything a scifi lover could want: fast paced plot, action, strategy, political intrigue, character development, psychological complexity, depth of emotions.. I've read it like 5 times. In addition, I'd recommend Card's "Shadow...
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    Deeper Fellowship member intro and Guidelines for posting

    Hi everyone, I'm new to CF. :)
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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    I think the issue of "older" and "embittered" is not a gender specific issue. Over time on a fallen world, it is inevitable that a person gets damaged, disillusioned and/or hurt. It is in that place of suffering that one's faith is shown for what it is. But it is also in this deep pit of...
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    Guys, would you date someone who does not have many friends?

    I used to have Social Phobia too, but it was more of a Post Traumatic Stress reaction. I am a lot better now. In the past, I could only date or connect with guys who made me feel extremely safe. I have to say that I actually like quiet reflective guys who are a little shy.