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Recent content by PDeverit

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    Disciplining kids

    Good, quick reads recommended by professionals: Plain Talk About Spanking by Jordan Riak The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children by Tom Johnson NO VITAL ORGANS THERE, So They Say by Lesli Taylor MD and Adah Maurer PhD (Can read online at website of Parents and Teachers Against Violence in...
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    Disciplining kids

    "The much-touted 'biblical argument' in support of corporal punishment is founded upon proof-texting a few isolated passages from Proverbs. Using the same method of selective scripture reading, one could also cite the Bible as an authority for the practice of slavery, adultery, polygamy, incest...
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    "Most Americans Think Corporal Punishment Is OK," ABCNEWS poll finds

    People used to think it was necessary to "spank" adult members of the community, college students, military trainees, and prisoners. In some countries they still do. In our country, it is considered sexual battery if a person over the age of 18 is "spanked", but only if over the age of 18. For...
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    "Most Americans Think Corporal Punishment Is OK," ABCNEWS poll finds

    "The much-touted 'biblical argument' in support of corporal punishment is founded upon proof-texting a few isolated passages from Proverbs. Using the same method of selective scripture reading, one could also cite the Bible as an authority for the practice of slavery, adultery, polygamy, incest...
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    "Most Americans Think Corporal Punishment Is OK," ABCNEWS poll finds

    It depends on which poll you are viewing. There are a number of polls, the average being about 50/50.
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    A spanked child may be a better adult: study

    People used to think it was necessary to "spank" adult members of the community, military trainees, and prisoners. In some countries they still do. In our country, it is considered sexual assault if a person over the age of 18 is "spanked", but only if over the age of 18. For one thing...
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    A spanked child may be a better adult: study

    Spirit of the law or letter of the law?: The vast majority of professionals agree that child buttock-battering isn’t healthy. A marginal few (mostly religious fundamentalists as those at Calvin) think that child bottom-slapping is good. They use the same selective literalist interpretation of...