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Recent content by P8shense

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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    The book was meant to help people, not just the person reading it.
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    I've researched the disorder and many other disorders. You seem to be stuck on the false idea that I insist she is schizophrenic. This is not true as I've stated before. Please refrain from posting judgmental statements on my threads. Thank you.
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    Well stated, BD. I am not saying that she is Schizophrenic. I am simply saying the shows some qualities of the disorder. If I were using this information to harm my spouse, we would be having a different conversation. On the other hand, there's nothing wrong with understanding her situation...
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    This is a very condemning statement and is not becoming of this forum. Please refrain from such statements on my threads. Thank you.
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    Again, I respect your opinion and will not judge you. I ask the same of you. Some of your comments are not in alignment with the story I've told on this forum. And speculation is just that as long as it is not used to harm the other person. I've spread no rumors about her. On the contrary, she...
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    I receive that. And I have not and will not pass along a personal diagnosis. I simply stated what was on my mind at the moment and it seems that I am being persecuted by at least one person. I would ask that we not be so judgmental. Your opinion is received. Thank you.
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    TW-- Actually the opposite is true: I look to several people in my life for guidance. I know I don't have all the answers which is why I said "I believe" and "something very similar". I know my situation much better than anyone and because she is still my spouse, I can and will make...
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    Wow. This sounds like judgement to me. I respect your opinion but will put my faith in God. Sent from my iPad using CF
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    Agreed. Self diagnosis is very dangerous. However, I did not reach the conclusion alone. My psychologist suggested it was a possibility. And the last counselor we saw insisted that she "was in a bad place" and that she "may not be in a position to make good decisions". Other people around us...
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    I believe, although I'm not totally sure, my wife also suffers from schizophrenia or something very similar. I've been reading Charles Crafts book "Defeating Dark Angels" and I'm she acknowledged manes festering were present and that she sees patterns (not totally sure what this means). I have...
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    Prayer Thread

    Im praying for God's healing for anyone with this disease. I believe, although I'm not totally sure, my wife also suffers from schizophrenia or something very similar. I've been reading Charles Crafts book "Defeating Dark Angels" and I'm convinced she hears voices and sees patterns (she's told...
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    I have a dilemma. What would you do if you and your spouse were separated and you were continuing to support the your spouse financially even though you were giving more, numerically and proportionally, than your spouse? My spouse makes at least $5000 more per year than I do. But I've...
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    Thank you brother. It does seem to be very unreal. I feel as if I'm in the greatest battle I've ever experienced. I know I have work to do on me. Thank God for God; otherwise I'd have given up long ago. I appreciate your prayers and will pray for you and all the men who are in a similar situation.
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    So I ask myself, “How can someone be so cold? How can someone you know well avoid giving you eye contact and seem look right through you everyday without acknowledging you? How can someone close to you be so upset they refuse to even talk to you?” The coldness shakes my spirit. I have no...
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    Depressed Wife - Staring at Divorce

    LinkH-- I receive your message. This is very powerful advice that I do not take lightly. Let me respond to a few things that resonated with me right away: 1) She will not pray with me at this time. She made that clear the day she told me she wanted separation. I agree that prayer can heal...