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Recent content by orangey

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    Insufficient

    I have some friends i just started living with. I have never felt comfortable around them because they make me feel insufficient in every way. First morning together before I left, they both asked me what i did at work and asked if i was the highest position in my company. I said no, i'm___this...
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    Can't decide what goal to start and when

    I am having a hard time choosing what venture to begin. Any advice is greatly appreciated. The goals are as follows: Masters Learn to sing and read music Art Spanish language The problem is that next year i want to take music and art on Monday, and also take my masters classes. But i am not...
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    Leaving Christianity

    Bad circumstances never come from God, they are a result of some sin. Whatever it is you are going through will mold you into what God has in store for your work. I can say this because I have been through it. Just think, he let his Son go through the crucifixion and now he RULES ALL!! God is...
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    Looking for advice on "tithing"

    It doesnt mention tithing in the new testament. It doesnt mention many old law regulations in the new law (testament). 1 Cornithians 16 says: Now concerning the collection for the saints: as I directed the churches of Galatia, so you also are to do. 2 On the first day of every week, each of...
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    So why did God make me this way?

    My thorn in the flesh is poor mood stablity. Right now I have been tirelessly depressed for over a month. Because I go through these horrible bouts, I can quickly recognize when someone is upset which is a gift from God. I can help others and so can you. Eventually you will see this is our life...
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    Can anger come out later

    Yeah, they refuse to go to counseling so I hope it will work out
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    Can anger come out later

    So, do you think things will never get better, and she will always be angry OR do you think this means things will get better over time?
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    Can anger come out later

    Can anger about childhood abuse come about later? Someone I know has just recently gotten very angry about their childhood, that has been many years ago. They have spent time with their family without issues until recently and now its BAD. If so, does it mean they are trying to get over it and will?
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    My mind cant make its mind up

    Thanks Trish. Thats funny, alot of people tell me they have felt this way at some point in their life, but I feel this way all the time ever since I can remember. I constantly set goals also. Contantly. Oh well.
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    My mind cant make its mind up

    I am enrolled to start a certain college program in a couple of months, but recently I have become bored with that idea, and will start a different program. I am so bored with life! I wish I could just fly to a different state everyweek that is the only way i wont be bored. For example, today I...
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    what is it called?

    I am enrolled to start a certain college program in a couple of months, but recently I have become bored with that idea, and will start a different program. I am so bored with life! I wish I could just fly to a different state everyweek that is the only way i wont be bored. For example, today I...
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    Going back to college

    I start college thursday and i have been waking up with anxiety anyone else?
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    Anyone actually get over anxiety?

    I did. There is hope. By the grace of God I balanced out. Each day I have to work through problems though. I worked on behavior and thoughts along with the right medicine. Its a daily battle but we are not alone. What I now know is that God is with me in the beginning middle and end of an...
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    Are You High, Low or Level? (5)

    Low probablly level 2. I was feeling good but now I feel inadequate, thank my Lord my God that I am going to the counselor tomorrow.