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Recent content by oracle999

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    I am so concerned - he will soon be living off of me...

    No that's not me. However, it sounds like a similar story -- only I do not have a child I came here tonight for some support because I am feeling very broken. I had another conversation tonight with my "fiancé" and it was so painful. He is going to need insurance when he becomes self...
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    I am so concerned - he will soon be living off of me...

    Have I lost all touch with reality? Is this THAT bad? I know i'm struggling, but am I looking like the biggest moron on the planet? Yes, I am able to succeed on my own financially -- but I just feel so lost when he is not around. It's like something in me has given up....and I find myself...
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    I am so concerned - he will soon be living off of me...

    Yes, when I moved with him -- he already had HUGE expenses. He makes good money of course -- but now he is taking a huge risk in starting his own business. I guess I just wonder why someone in this position wouldn't just decide to find another employer instead of take a 200k business loan -- to...
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    I am so concerned - he will soon be living off of me...

    I tried leaving him once before and I did not last long. I was so heart broken and missed him very much. I believe that at a minimum, I am a codependent -- as he probably is too. It's easy to say 'run' ...but it is so difficult to really leave him. We have spent so much time together over...
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    I am so concerned - he will soon be living off of me...

    I am a catholic -- as is my fiancé. We live together -- I moved to his town and into his home about a year ago. We lived a few hours away and he was making more money than me...and he begged me to move with him so he could cut down on the travel. He said he would take care of me financially...