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Recent content by operatoractual

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    Views on adult products in marriage.

    After 20 years of marriage IMHO I would say YES YES YES and YES. Your sexual life together is about your relationship. How else are your needs / desires to be met if not with your spouse? Sex can be an act or an experience. the experience is much better. Sex toys are no different than any other...
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    Having trouble / guilt with lifestyle becasue im confused if it is ok.

    I do understand most of what everyone's point is, specifically the legalism issues. For me the issue I am now struggling with is the desires of my flesh for something that is truly a isolated issue in my life and marriage. We enjoy this time and experience together. I'm more of a grass guy...
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    Having trouble / guilt with lifestyle becasue im confused if it is ok.

    The fact that i am having this debate with myself is that I think im receiving a download that it may be time to stop. The reason I am having this conflict is not due to my desire to have the substances, that I am sure of. Rather the conviction related to the question I asked God in my heart...
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    Having trouble / guilt with lifestyle becasue im confused if it is ok.

    Yes I do agree with the idea of it being difficult to separate the Biblical from the legal. I personally feel God is convicting me to stop this behavior in my life. As the Husband I am responsible for my wife and family. My wife suggested we have a "fun weekend" over 4th of July. I began to feel...
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    Having trouble / guilt with lifestyle becasue im confused if it is ok.

    I am married 20yrs to my wife. We have a 100% faithful, committed, and loving relationship, and we always have. My marriage is fantastic, my wife is beautiful and sexy and we have a very active sex life together. We make love most of the time daily maybe more than once. Our ages are 46/43. We...