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Recent content by oneofthem

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    Mental!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Hey. I haven't been on here for a really long time. Well, right now it's 12:20am and i am feeling really tormented. My mind is so scattered and i can't sleep, i tried for over an hour to sleep just lying in bed. I have been having a really difficult time with my mental health. This last...
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    Introductory Thread For Newbies & Lurkers

    Hi! I'm not new, i'm old but i haven't been on here properly for about 2 years. Name: decline, sorry Age: 27 Gender: F Location: Sydney, Aus Marital Status: Mostly happily married for over 2 years! Denomination: Did anglican scripture at public school, went to Catholic high school, was part...
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    What's been your warm'n'fuzzy moment this week?

    Hi peeps! I use to be regular on here but haven't been on here at all really for last couple of years. Well...warm and fuzzy for me is from last week sorry! On Sat night i went to a friend's surprise birthday party. We have known eachother for maybe 10 years and lost touch for a bit but...
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    Hubby and I not well :-(

    GUH!!!!!! So....i have long history as long as your arm, mainly with depression, and have been diagnosed as bipolar which i do not think i agree with. I have had manic episodes, and the only time it was not induced by antidepressant medication or drugs was when i was 14. I'm now 26. My...
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    Random Question Thread

    Window seat if the person sitting next to me is someone i know, otherwise aisle near the window seat. Q: What is something really funny that happened and you can't help laughing out loud whenever you think of it?
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    What do you smell like when you need a wash?

    Hi Hazel!!!!!!!!!! How are you???? <<<<<<hugz>>>>>>> Would love to hear how you're doing!
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    What do you smell like when you need a wash?

    I smell like bandaids.
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    Can ya give me some insight?

    Hi. I guess...don't ignore things if they're getting bad. Take words and behaviours seriously and if things get out of hand, pass on information to her doctor/psychiatrist. Get her a good psychiatrist and maybe a psychologist who she feels she can trust and build a rapport. Because if things...
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    Hubby got scheduled during manic episode :-(

    We been married for 18 months. His brother is bipolar I i think, and has been hospitalised many times. Although, his brother does smoke pot and takes Oxycontin. Hubby smoked a bit in his youth, as in over 10 years ago, and has been on an anti D for the last year which i think has been the...
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    Depression

    Hi Clintus. This is oneofthem, visiting after months away from CF. I started reading the responses and started getting a headache. I can kind of relate to your situation right now and i will PM you. I hope you're ok my brother. oneofthem
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    What??? God hates Australia now?

    Well, it's comforting to know that they don't discriminate, they hate everyone equally. Except themselves maybe. When they put up a website that says godhateswestboro, then maybe that would cover everyone. Oh, but wait, i think they're already covered, because God hates America apparently.
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    Rabbit Proof Fence - Stolen Generation

    I haven't read everything here, but i strongly recommend the 7 part documentary series available online (for free) on the SBS website called "The First Australians". I personally found it very balanced and very confronting. Alot of this stuff is not taught at school but should be. Go to...
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    Hi everyone :-)

    I don't really come on here anymore but thought i'd say a quick hello. Hope you're all doing ok. Life's going mostly good for me. Cheers oneofthem
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    Hillsong Church, Gloria Jeans - linked to abuse claims.

    Hi fokes. Haven't been around for a few weeks cos i've been busy with my new job and i don't stuff around any more at work. In the neighbourhood and thought i'd blow in on this one. I was a member of Hillsong for five years, and during that five years, spent twelve months at Mercy...
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    World Youth Day 2008

    I haven't been to any of the events, but my neighbour is a volunteer. There's a real buzz in Sydney at the moment. Lots of people everywhere with flags. I work(ed) in Pyrmont and when i left work i could hear this really beautiful music across the harbour. I think the press has also been very...