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Recent content by oneanddone

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    Adult kids? How do you keep the relationship going?

    My oldest daughter and I were inseparable until college (18). While she showed every sign that she was going to do well.......involved in youth, good gpa, many extra curricular activities, and a healthy attitude with a good support system. She dropped out, drank like a fish, did tons of drugs...
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    18 Years of Marriage starting to get hard....now :(

    It's not supposed to happen to us!! Highschool sweethearts, living in sin, became born again Christians at 22 had a bad experience with a SUPER LEGALISTIC church, but it did change us dramatically. Have had a pretty stable church home the last year (we just moved), but we go to different...
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    Husband screwed up HARD CHOICE!

    [/COLOR] I firmly agree 100% my fault I came from a very work based church with little tolerance for sin of any kind. Which is why it has been so hard to transition to a normal church it seems everyone is doing 10% of what I was taught you needed to do not to attain salvation which is...
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    Husband screwed up HARD CHOICE!

    So, what would you do in this scenario? Married 20 years, both saved together, raising a family teens, very real and honest in most areas. My wife has been stronger in the faith the last 3 years and I have been weaker struggling to find a true path after leaving our ultra legalistic works...