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Recent content by OhCanada

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    to the men: what do you want in a wife?

    This is from another forum and all, but i'll put it here to. I guess I'll thrwow my 2 cents in here.... Well I've been around long enough to the point where some of the thigs i used to want look quite nieve and leave the power of forgivness, love, and grace out of life. SO this is my...
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    Men: Reasons You Would Not Ask A Woman Out

    - She has a "list" of 150 things that are required in a guy that no one could ever meet (thank you joshua harris!) - Can talk about everything involving the church and christinity, but have no idea whats going on in the world outside of that - Is easily offened thats just a few....
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    Intensely devout Christian girl cheats on my brother!

    Yeah.......what this guy said. And it is better to have a relationship break off early when they are not engaged or really in a place where backing out of a dating relationship would be more painful. I had the once irl of my dreams" (and the girl of my dreams now isn't like this girl) break...
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    This one's for all the *ladies*...

    " Who calls you back when you hang up on him" Is it me or am i the only one who sees this one a bit flawed? Kinda sends that message out there "don't call me back!"
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    What should i say

    Nothing says braveness like starting a statement that you HAVE to end. "Hey {insert girls name} i was wondering if you'd like to............uh......go out with me sometime." Give it a shot. OR as any football coach would say "Suck it up and throw the bomb"
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    Things that are kept til marriage...

    If you really love your bride/groom and you have made that clear and out in the open - then in my book forgiveness and is all you need. It takes a lot more for a person to tell you that kind of thing before you get married than to hide secrets. I've had some friends who couldn't get over that...
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    What should i say

    Coming from an introverted type guy, just ask her. From the sound of it she likes you, so if you like her and want to take her on a date or something, then just say "I was wondering if you'd want to go out on a date sometime". If shes shy to (or waiting for you to make the move) you've been...
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    Advice on dating again.

    Agreed. But also don't forget this. According to your screen name, your only 18 - and if i placed odds on it i would bet that the majority of people who have found their mate at 18 or lower would be a very very low statistic. Your still young, you have time, and the first break up is not fun...
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    How tall are you?

    6'2 and 2/3!
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    I just want to move on!

    Well sorry to hear about your situation kido (said the 22 year old to the 21 year old), but i can tell you from persoanl experiance that this isn't easy stuff to go through. I've been through this on the other end of things being the guy that has been played around with by the girl. To quick...
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    Jumping in

    hey folks, figuered i'm just go head long into this thing and see what happens. So basically after a 2-4 year hiatus from being a christian leader and going from being a pastor to a non-church going heathen, I have begun to look out for a church/"real" christians. Figured I'd continue in my...