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Recent content by oat02351

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    Parents, Is this depression??

    I used to be a Eucharistic minister. you have a point there too
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    Parents, Is this depression??

    what I meant about the post baby monthly friend has changed, like I get cramps sometimes now and I my symptoms are more pronounced post baby. thank you for your words, they touched me. hope to meet you in the next life... (not too soon though, lol:sorry:)
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    Motherless children

    thank you, you just kinda' made me feel better:angel:
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    Motherless children

    I think about some of the things you talk about often but, I think about it differently. Like I'm greatful to have a warm bed, food, clothes and everything I need. I think me and you should do some volunteering or something, feed some hungry people at the soup kitchen or something
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    When can I give up?

    As much as we want to at times, we can't give up. You have as much right to help as anyone. We have to look for things to help us get by and when we get real low. Look for something and when you find something cling to it. For exaple I have a mom, dad, brother, sister, husband and child. Think...
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    Parents, Is this depression??

    I wish to thank you all for understanding. I don't feel very good today but, I'll probably feel better tomorrow. I really wish I could just run away and hang out on my own for like a week or a month or something but, I have a job and a family. I feel so trapped sometimes and I don't know why. I...
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    Parents, Is this depression??

    my daughter is two now though. I don't cry like I did in the beginning. I was on med for a year, don't want to go back on it. It makes me really numb like I feel no joy, fear or anything. One of you mentioned the monthly thing post baby, that makes sense I have it that might be why I'm off too...
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    Parents, Is this depression??

    I feel like I can't talk to anyone about these issues so here I can be anonymous. I have a two year old daughter, beautiful right. The husband helps out with pretty much everything so I do get some time to myself. Sounds good right? I'm not complaining but, I just know there is something wrong...
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    Anyone want to read this poem?

    A Calling Revel in new found glory Happiness seemingly infinate Over abundance of joy The heart overflows When the calling is found But, when a calling is Tested by time by life and by reality eventually lost The heart grows dark dying a slow death Fall from grace the spirit suffers a...
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    Anyone want to read this poem?

    thanks for the advice:thumbsup:, let me know how this next one is
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    Anyone want to read this poem?

    thanks, though I myself didn't think it came out that great. I used to write so many uplifting, sunshining poems. I actually haven't written anything in a while. This one came to me as I was driving in the car and I just had the urge to write, before I forgot the words. "dirty deeds' came on the...
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    Anyone want to read this poem?

    A Note To Father Time Looking back, in the past Nostalgia at it's best Those "dirty deeds always done dirt cheap" Well kick me were the sun Never shines And tell me now that I am 15-20 years older Swear to me You are my friend Become my enemy Tell me I have a spouse and child of my own Oh...
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    Posting photos of your children on FB naked.

    I only put a new born pic of my daughter when she was first born on the scale in the delivery room on the preg forums here. When kids get older though it's not so safe
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    Have Any Other Mothers Felt this way?

    It seems when I Need time the most, noone is around. My Mom (who is the only person ..well and my Dad too are the only people I have to look after her while I work my bitty part time job)is off to the casino every day off she has from work. My Dad follows her. It's hard enough to get them to...
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    Have Any Other Mothers Felt this way?

    Everyone is so supportive here. Thank you so much! There are many times I rather be alone though. Folding and watching my favorite talk shows or watever. I find I loose patience too often with her also without good reason and hollar at her. That is what really gets me. It's not good for her. I...