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Recent content by nursec

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    Gossip or defending ethics?

    The pastor before this one was very good to handicap people. We had a man and woman from a group home that use to play the tamborine and the shaker. The pastor before would just hug them and tell them how he loved that they were there. The people from the group home was so awesome to watch...
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    Gossip or defending ethics?

    I have seriously considered leaving. I have attended this church for 22 years. My children were dedicated here. My elderly parents attend here. My 17 year son loves the youth pastor and is very involved with youth program. He will be leaving for college this fall. I may hold on until then...
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    Gossip or defending ethics?

    I have never heard of that type of worship before. I will read about it.
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    Gossip or defending ethics?

    She may be off rhythm at times. I could never hear her before because we are a pretty loud band and she was always on the floor. Her hands are extremely weak so she cannot play loud. I can't answer the "distraction" thing. I asked them why they thought that and there was really no good...
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    Gossip or defending ethics?

    It has been a real heartbreak for me, especially now with the pastor and board knowing the details. My feeling is that since we are in a new sanctuary that we are trying to be trendy and only have perfection in our appearance and sound. The worship leader went back to school and received her...
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    Gossip or defending ethics?

    Not to me. My family does not think so either. Her worship is beautiful to me because it takes everything she has to play the Kabbas or the shakers. Her hands are weak and crippled. She told me that when she plays it is physical therapy for her and she doesn't have pain while she plays...
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    Gossip or defending ethics?

    Thank you for responding. The board members have not changed anything yet. One of the board members did tell me that the worship leader is the authority over our music and it is her decision to make so I do not believe that they will correct her on the matter. I have removed myself from the...
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    Gossip or defending ethics?

    I am in a real dilemma. The worship leader at our church removed one of our worship team members when we moved into a new sanctuary. This person had played on our worship team for 12 years. She had always played on the floor in front of our platform but finally we had a handicapped accessible...
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