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Recent content by NothernOne

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    Diagnose Me Help Me I Don't Know?

    When I was in high school I was overweight, I had no energy. I didn't want to go to school, didn't even want to go to class. Weird thing was I had good grades, was a very straight arrow kid. I did nothing other than study and sleep my entire middle school and high school years. To say I was...
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    Can Someone Get Help For An Eating Disorder Without Papertrail?

    I was a chubby kid in high school, over two hundred pounds. I went to college, due to stress adjusting to college I dropped around fifty pounds in three months. I came back home in December my freshman year around a hundred and fifty pounds. I gained a ton of confidence after this and got a...
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    I Need Some Advice On the Opposite Sex/ Life?

    I can't imagine what went on in her life. She told me she was a mistake between her mom and her dad, nice thing to tell your kid eh? She also doesn't have a dad in her life so I can see that skewing her view of the males in her life. I'm angry I wasted any emotional energy on thought on her, you...
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    Concealed Carriers? (moved from Outdoors & Nature)

    I think of this more than a hobby but actually a lifestyle. Anyone here carry for the defense of oneself and their loved ones?
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    I Need Some Advice On the Opposite Sex/ Life?

    I thank everyone for reading my crazy story and giving me advice. For the last two years I thought I was the crazy person.
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    I Need Some Advice On the Opposite Sex/ Life?

    Well the worst of this "stalking" has occurred this summer. I would have let it rest until this past summer. I also learned recently how much she has been calling my store for me.
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    I Need Some Advice On the Opposite Sex/ Life?

    Tamara I do care about her. I have known her since she was like 14. Parents drop there kids off at our stores to work but they also entrust us as guardians of their kids. I take that very seriously. Like so many of my employees she comes from a broken home, no dad around. But at this point I am...
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    I Need Some Advice On the Opposite Sex/ Life?

    I do know for a fact that she hit her ex bf when he dumped her. I have a few employees that can testify to that.
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    I Need Some Advice On the Opposite Sex/ Life?

    I told this girl no numerous times. I actually got so mad at her once she ran out of the store one night about to cry after she tried to show me her belly button ring and her thong. I was the bad guy the next day when employees asked why I yelled at her. I think the problem is that my parents...
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    I Need Some Advice On the Opposite Sex/ Life?

    So I'm guessing it's time to reveal to my family that she doesn't just have a tiny crush like they think and the extent by which she has done this? This is going to crush their opinion of her. I really appreciate the help, I think I'm going to stick around here. You can't imagine how much this...
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    I Need Some Advice On the Opposite Sex/ Life?

    My family hires a ton of high school ages employees. I was in college when I started running one of our stores. We hired this one girl who was 14. She was entering high school in the fall and I was 19 and just finishing my freshman year of college. As soon as we started to work together she gave...