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Recent content by NotHardcore

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    TrueBlood-Twilight-Harry Potter

    The Harry Potter series is quite Christian in its themes, and while it's not focused on, the characters are clearly Christians (they celebrate Christian holidays, there are Bible verses on Harry's parents' headstones, etc). I hate Twilight, but I'm fairly certain the author never...
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    Lady Gaga's Judas -- Spreading the Occult Gospel

    Bit late to the party here, but yes, Gaga was raised Catholic and remains religious in her own way (even going so far as to outright state in one of her songs, "There's only 3 men that I'ma serve in my whole life: It's my daddy and Nebraska (her boyfriend) and Jesus Christ"). She may not...
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    Wedding favors!

    Kind of a late reply, and I'm still not engaged yet (it's coming...sometime this year, it *is* coming lol), but I've started looking into wedding stuff and I think I'm probably going to do caramel apples with a crunch topping from Daffy Apple (wedding will likely be October 2013). Also...
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    School Lunch

    Not a parent, but just wanted to say that kids being able to choose their lunch isn't new. When I was in elementary school, I think there were 4 meals to choose from every day (Option 1: changed daily, Option 2: changed daily, Option 3: bagel, Option 4: salad). It wasn't very healthy...
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    Talking about things with your companion before marriage.

    You need to resolve these issues before you propose. My boyfriend and I discussed baby names, sex, finances, etc before we even made our relationship official. It's really important to have an ongoing dialogue about that stuff.
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    Who all is supposed to go to the rehearsal dinner?

    When my brother got married, it was just the wedding party (bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girl, ring bearer), parents, grandparents, and the parents of the ring bearer and flower girl. If any siblings hadn't been in the wedding party already, then they would have been invited, too. I was a...
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    Honeymoon

    We're not engaged yet, but we're probably going to honeymoon in Salem, Massachusetts. He loves the paranormal and I love old time-y towns, so it should be a good choice for us.
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    "I Love You"...

    I wouldn't be able to date a guy who would not/could not tell me he loved me...but I also wouldn't bother entering into a relationship unless I could see myself marrying the guy and he could see himself marrying me. My boyfriend said "I love you" two days after we met in person and decided to...
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    Tyra Today

    Yep :). You're welcome to join the BBW world if you want to, though :P. We have cookies! Lots and lots...and lots of cookies :P. Just joking around :P.
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    Tyra Today

    Not all of these people are "stupid," "have issues," or are "sick"...
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    Tyra Today

    It's more common than you think. It doesn't surprise me at all, but then again, I'm familiar with it.
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    Tyra Today

    Just to show things from the perspective of an FA and to highlight the "closet" feelings they experience...I found this "article" of sorts online. My boyfriend and I do not agree with everything the author says (the guy is a rather dramatic (some of his "facts" are probably wrong), makes...
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    Tyra Today

    Doubtful...those sorts of people are readily available...
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    Tyra Today

    I wouldn't live in Australia, either...too hot and full of creatures that can kill you :P. It can also be a really pretty place, though, so rock on to anyone who lives there or wants to live there :P. If it's an obsession or rooted in a mental issue, then yes, there's something wrong with...
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    Tyra Today

    That case is an example of an FA who is obsessed with weight and/or a jerk and a user. My boyfriend loves my weight but he also loves me, so he would never leave me for not being fat enough. I wouldn't be so quick to call it a fetish...if you go nutty/intense with it, it can be a fetish, but...