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Recent content by Nix

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    Deeply Hurt about fiance's past

    The amount of women he has been with doesn't mean he is experienced! He could have been a selfish lover (only to please himself) There are many things still to be learnt and that can only be learnt in the marriage bed!
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    finger sex

    How long can sperm live on environmental surfaces? ANSWER: They die as they dry out, so it depends on how quickly they dry. They also are killed by fresh water due to osmotic shock. Soap and detergents such as those used for laundering and hand washing also kill them, as these substances strip...
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    Boyfriend has pornography

    Tulip... you have no right to tell this guy that what he is doing is wrong. Why? Because he isn't a christian and he will never see your view point unless he becomes one. If you are sticking around with him in hope that you will get him saved, I have a news flash, what you are doing then is...
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    Deeply Hurt about fiance's past

    Do you realize that he needs to be the spiritual head of the home? If he can't lead you spiritually now, how can he be an example and christ like when you are married. You do not need to be spiritually strong for him. He needs to do this for himself.
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    Deeply Hurt about fiance's past

    I think it's a bit sad if this guy is relying on you to stay "pure"... it's a bit like missionary dating actually. I've been curious about this from the beginning... but is he a christian?
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    Deeply Hurt about fiance's past

    Hi Simplegirl.... I know EXACTLY how you are feeling! I feel the pain you are feeling because I was once there too. Before I met my bf I was praying to God about the future man he had for me. I felt God ask me what if He gave me a man who wasn't a virgin. Of course I couldn't deal with this...
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    engaged and confused...

    Certain types of birth controls e.g the pill has to be taken up to 3 months before comeing together to ensure no baby surprises.
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    engaged and confused...

    Could you describe to us what feelings you do have for him? Remember: Feelings are fleeting and will come and go Your husband should become your best friend but also a lover, one you are attracted too. Marriage is commitment.
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    Just another newbie

    Thanks all! :)
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    Aotearoa - New Zealand

    Not too bad, can't complain.... I don't know where to start... so many threads too look at... I perfer the journal section of CGR though!
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    South-Africa

    Is that the rugby or soccer?
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    Aotearoa - New Zealand

    Ooops :P I spel it wrong :D I know you!! Haven't seen you around the other board for ages!! Been holding out on us eh!! ;)
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    Aotearoa - New Zealand

    KEPA!!!!!! (don't worry people, we know each other from another board) I'm South African living in New Zealand, in Auckland/Kohimarama. Been to Taurangu and Christchurch and Havelock North :D
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    New Zealand

    :D I'll let you know that I actually have a big hreat for Australia. Went to Melbourne recently. Awesome place
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    South-Africa

    Hey guys! South African here, moved to New Zealand in April 2001 and living in Auckland. My last town I lived in in SA was Somerset West! Went to Parel Vallei High School and Somerset West Primary as well as other primary schools! So good to find some fellow SA people here!! ~Nix