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Recent content by nicknack

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    Help with brother

    That seems a little strong, but I'll try when he returns from school tommorrow.
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    Help with brother

    Thanks a lot. I will try to ask him tommorrow. Seriously, thanks for reading and replying.
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    Help with brother

    If he says he is, how do I talk to him?
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    Help with brother

    My family does not go to church very often. As much as we are christians at heart, we don't pray/read the bible or even go to church often. I believe it is puberty and unclean temptations that led him to this road. It is 3am here and he is sleeping now, any advice on how to break the question...
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    Help with brother

    I'm 18 this year. I understand the things going on through puberty, I have been through this phase as well but at least I knew how to reason with myself that it's wrong and I considered over it wisely and had asked people about it. I am glad I am mostly out of this struggle. What I cannot come...
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    Help with brother

    Please Help!
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    Help with brother

    Hi, I'm afraid to ask anyone. I have this feeling that my brother might be homosexual. He's only 14. I certainly hope this is not true. But there are times when I ask him about girls and dating, he whispers he is gay. There was another occasion, he mentioned that he should have gone to this...
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    Tried but Failed

    I only tried settingcaptives free for about a week or two. I resist, well, if you call that resistance by trying not to look and having my hands to click or access that site. I don't really read magazines, and this is the only english newspaper subscription in my country as it is really...
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    Ive beat it!! Almost =/

    Hi. I'm glad that you are winning this battle. Continue to fight against it for temptation attacks when you least expect it. I am however fighting a losing battle, but I am not giving up. I support you and your fight against porn and masturbation!
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    Tried but Failed

    Porn is easily accessible through the internet, temptation comes even easier just by the slightest hint of sensuality. It's everywhere. It's really hard. I've tried to talk, tried to confide, I've tried everything, maybe not with the 100% effort, but I did try. I thank you for your replies...
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    Tried but Failed

    Yes, I tried settingcaptivesfree for a few days and I quit. Personally, it's hard to ignore such pictures, be it a decent ad. It still brings suggestive thoughts. I've tried hard to focus my heart on God, but it's all just temporary before I fall back into sin. I used to confide in my ex-gf...
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    Tried but Failed

    I've tried to quit porn and masturbation. I tried to stop thinking, I tried to occupy myself. I tried to go turkey, I tried online courses. I tried to pray, I tried to go to church. I tried to read the Bible. In the end, nothing has changed. Every time I stave off these 2 bad habits, they come...
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    Learning Martial Arts

    Isn't that a little far-fetched? Do you have any proof that shows that is true? Have you heard of the formula force= mass x acceleration. They are able to break boards because of their large muscle mass and hard-earned speed. Plus, bones do not even break that easily, with conditioning, it is...
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    Learning Martial Arts

    Thanks! I will use that during meditation! I am more at peace now.
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    Learning Martial Arts

    Thanks alot. Is there any way I can avoid meditation? Maybe by thinking about God? But I find it hard to focus on breathing, while thinking at the same time.