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Recent content by nessa

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    So hard...yet not sure

    It has been over a year now since my miscarriage, but i still feel like it was yesterday. I just found out that i am pregnant again..and i am so scared that it is going to happen again. I don't know what to do. Should i be happy? Scared? i don't know what to do anymore. I am not trying to...
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    a poem i found about a friend's perspective on SI

    that is really pretty...kinda opens up somethin i guess
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    please pray for me *trig*

    May 22 was supposed to be my edd...and i feel so heavy ever since that day. My fiance and i are trying for another baby now, but it just seems that i can't get my lost child out of my mind. I just wasn't fair! I wasn't on drugs, drinking, or did anything wrong! I just keep looking at my u/s...
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    miscarried just on Nov 1st

    hey guys...it has been a long time... i don't have a computer, so i can't get on very often... I know that May 22 is going to be a VERY hard day for me...my due date i ask for prayers for my cousin...he lost his 2 month old baby the WEEK of Christmas of SIDS..He is doing okay now...he has his...
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    My story is...what's yours?

    My story of loss doesn't sound so severe when i read these stories.... i just had a miscarriage a week ago, and i feel like i lost a part of me. My child was going to be my first, so i felt so attached to her *i think it was a girl :) * i pray for those who have greater losses than i do.
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    loss

    i am so sorry for your loss...for both actually. i would say that everything gets better...but i know how annoying that can get after a while. Just take it all one day at a time. I hope everything starts to look up for you. Just try to keep your chin up!
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    miscarried just on Nov 1st

    today feels worse than any of them...i would have been 3 months pregnant today. I am around kids, so i can't just cry, they wouldn't understand. How do i get the pain and anguish out?
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    What we need to hear......something to help the pain

    What we need to hear by Joi Hasselbring When I learned that the child that I loved from conception had stopped growing and the heartbeat was gone, I wanted to die too. My arms ache for the child I cannot hold. When the child died, a part of me died as well. I want to hold her, never let her...
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    miscarried just on Nov 1st

    What did i do to deserve something like this though? Why is it hurting me so much? I am stronger than this! This isn't fair. I WANT MY BABY! I want to be happy again!
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    miscarried just on Nov 1st

    my fiance is making me nervous with this because he won't let himself be affected by it yet...his main worry is a place to live *we are about to be kicked out unless he has a job in the next 3 days*...he says after he finds a job he will cry...how am i supposed to handle him then if i don't know...
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    miscarried just on Nov 1st

    Everything was going great...happily engaged finally, and finally pregnant. But i woke up one day from a nap with uncomfortable feelings. Lucky me, they turned into cramps about an hour later. My fiance took me to the emergency room, and the doc said i had a full miscarriage. Why is it that...
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    what should i do on nov. 10?

    i just had a m/c on November 1st. My due date was supposed to be May 22nd. We have a name for it since we weren't sure it was a boy or a girl, we named it Skylar. We have a tattoo planned for us to both get...it is a broken heart with a wing on each with SKY and LAR on each side. I know it...
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    words [***TRIGGER***]

    i know how you feel 2seek and im still waiting for the help i know i need
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    Didn't someone here mention a song about cutting?

    called Scream by ZOEgirl? trust me, you definatly aren't alone on the cutting issues
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    help me...**may be triggering**

    i have started eating again...during the day...when it goes day, i only eat once, and that's all....stupid, i know but honestly, right now..i have MUCH bigger issues..but they are causing me to not eat.