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Recent content by nesian

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    Public Drinking

    People still drink heavily within their compounds and then venture out into the night, wreaking havoc and painting the town red. But I suppose the streets are more tidy without a large number of bottles being strewn about. I'd love to be able to sit in a park and enjoy a couple of drinks though.
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    How to dress (according to Answers in Genesis)

    I do get very improper thoughts when in the company of shirtless men. I can't be held accountable for wanting to jump them so it's probably best to put a shirt on around me. :)
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    Google+

    Is it open to everyone now? I tried signing up a few weeks ago but I think the spaces were all taken
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    Getting married young

    It depends if you've found your soul mate. I have a work colleague who has been with her fiance for four years, they're getting married next year, she's 23 and he's 24. Personally, I think that's way too young, ideally I'll be getting married in my late 20s...not now because I'm way too selfish...
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    What are you listening to right now?

    Kiss Kiss - Yeah Yeah Yeahs
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    To drink or not to drink? That is the question

    I think there's nothing wrong with having a nice glass of wine to complement your meal. As for getting drunk, yeah I've been there, loads...It's fun to have a couple with your friends, socially, moderately... But there's also nothing wrong with abstaining completely, my brother's 24 and he...
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    What was the last movie you watched?

    soccerer's apprentice. Just average, Nic Cage was the only one worth who did a good job, really.
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    So what do you guys do after a bad day?

    ^That sounds pretty relaxing, actually. Haha fair enough, but HJNTIY is actually well above the generic chic flick type comedy. And it's good to watch if you've just been dumped :| or just want a better understanding of the opposite sex. Thrillers..hmm any Quentin Tarrantino movie..Inglorious...
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    what are you feeling right now? (3)

    I am feeling tired. And tired of feeling tired. Also I'm worried, and more than a little depressed but I'm good at hiding it. I really just want a break from all of this. :|
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    Is it okay for Christians to tell their gay children to not be gay?

    In this day and age, It definitely isn't. You just can't root the gayness out of them >.< I have a couple of gay friends who've had different reactions from their parents. One, who's a lesbian, has really supportive parents. The other...his dad really hasn't taken it well at all. It's ...
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    What song are you listening to?

    make yourself -incubus
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    What program did or are you studying in university/college?

    Just 3 papers stand between me and getting a BCOM in accountancy. Then hopefully, the Job hunting will take off and someone will want to hire me, fingers crossed =.=
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    Don't Want Kids

    Personally, I think you'd be missing out on the chance to pass on your genes and discover the joy in raising children. Maybe even living to see your grandchildren etc But that's just me. There's nothing wrong with not procreating (:
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    Question for the girls

    Qualities in Christian guys/Guys in general really.. Hmm well definitely someone who's open and honest, I can't stand cryptic guys. A guy that'd rather watch dvds at home with me rather than being out having more than a few beers with his buddies. Someone who I can have deep meaningful...
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    So what do you guys do after a bad day?

    What else is there to do but cry your eyes out. Also, confiding in a good friend about how badly your day went helps too, then you can commiserate. & yeah a good comedy helps. Watch he's just not that into you, if you haven't already! :D