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Recent content by neednotfret

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    Life as a Single ~ Is it a joke... or an oxymoron?

    You're right. Many people treat singles as something to be fixed. I wasn't married until I was thirty-something. I hated the way some people treated me, as though I were pitiful because I was still single. But, I was a single who really wanted to get married and God finally, after many years of...
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    Staying chaste while vacationing with boyfriend

    I appreciate you honesty and can relate to your situation. I was in a similar one several years ago. The way we worked it was to take a friend who wanted to also see the country we had decided to vacation in. (Of course, make this friend pay his own way.) We made sure that, while we had alone...
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    Does lost love ever return?

    I know of several people who did reunite after they broke up. It wasn't true in my case as when I was single. The break-ups were final. Scripture doesn't say anything in particular about getting an old girlfriend or boyfriend back. The Bible does at several points deal with romantic love but...