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Recent content by needadvice2

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    Need help - husband losing job, pressure all on me.

    To answer some of the questions here -- he has always felt insecure with me. However, while we were dating...we had a major fight where I saw this extreme anger for the first time. I began to distance myself from him. But, we started to get back together and he went through my phone. He found...
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    Need help - husband losing job, pressure all on me.

    He would never allow a separation. He is absolutely against even a single afternoon without me. He says if I left for a night he couldn't take me back because he would worry that I was another man....and he can't accept that. I literally can't even take a walk around the block when we are...
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    Need help - husband losing job, pressure all on me.

    He's been this way for awhile. He is very difficult about this. He will say he will move to my city and make it easier for me and then he will backtrack. Tonight he got extremely upset because I was discussing spending 250 a month for my son's tuition at school. He said "I guess I'm just gonna...
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    Need help - husband losing job, pressure all on me.

    The crazy thing is he is so insecure he is on me like a stalker. So much so, that I walked out of the UPS store with our mail today and I the boots (knee high) that I had been wearing had been rubbing me for days...I had been complaining. I stuffed an envelope in my boot to hold the leather...
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    Need help - husband losing job, pressure all on me.

    My new husband is about to lose his job. He makes a very good income and he also has enormous expenses. He has child support for 3 kids and he pays about 2200.00 a month. I have a child, as well who lives in my hometown and I also have to pay some child support to my ex. Late last year I took...