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Recent content by natanya

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    how far do you define a long distance relationship?

    I think it depends on how it impacts your relationship e.g. if you are in a big city you can be one hour away from your sweetie but you probably don't consider it long-distance because it isn't far geographically. If you can't see each other more than a few times per week BECAUSE of the...
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    Upstate New York

    Any one Upstate? I just moved to a town outside of Syracuse. I am still looking for a church. This city is NOT a good place for single adults....
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    A-Z 80's movies

    Flashdance Ghostbusters
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    A-Z 80's movies

    ET The extraterrestrial
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    I have never ever ever

    I have never been to Europe
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    Church in New York

    Who lives in New York City? I need to find a good church with good fellowship- Bronx, Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan. Thanks! Feel free to respond in this thread or to PM me. Blessings.....
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    I got pulled over by two cops tonight!!!

    Just be glad that you're not black- they would have arrested you and shot you.
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    How To Attract Men and Keep Them Interested

    "Show up naked?" For some reason, the mods don't allow anyone to comment (otherwise it is called "flaming") when people in the "Christians Only" section post things like this. Why don't the mods have restrictions on indecency?
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    Got a singles-event buddy?

    Hi Jenster, I'm in the same boat as you. Most of the Christians that I've met recently (after moving back to my hometown) actually DO go to bars and get drunk, and meet people the same way that unbelievers do. I don't even know any single Christian women who are not dating/ playing the field...
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    Men, Women, and Physical Boundaries

    Physical affection for a woman usually has an emotional component- whether she is giving or receiving. Men- you have to have your own boundaries to demonstrate that your relationship with God is at the center of your life. Always aim for the higher ground. If you have more liberal boundaries...
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    Are there any good men left that are saved?

    "strong in Christ" is asking for too much it seems. (sigh...)
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    2007 Get to know the 30 somethings

    :wave: Hello All. 31, Born Again, Single female, New York City!
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    Dating question

    What does "hook-up limit" mean?
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    Fav songs of when you were a grade schooler

    I used to love alot of songs but my earliest faves were: "Arlene" "Shining Star" "If you think I'm Sexy"
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    Current TV Shows

    Globetrekker is my favorite tv show. (NOT including shows that are canceled.) Lost has been an obsession since the second season. I also like Food Network- I'm watching Rachel Ray now. Also Top Chef and all the cooking shows on PBS. The American Idol tryouts are funny. I like the Wife...